I am a mother of a very willful and stubborn boy. But I use a technique to subdue him; I spank his butt and “miss” my hand a little further into his nuts. Every time I use this, he does what I told him to do. I only “miss” when needed, and it works!!! Don’t you think mothers should just start using this technique of mine? I mean as long as it works why not?
The problem is, he is now 9 years old, and I think he is starting to suspect I do it on purpose, at what age do you think I should stop using this technique?
2006-09-15 08:16:34 · 41 answers · asked by angelina_hg 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
This must be a joke. You should go the jokes section of yahoo answers. If it's not, then you're sick in the head & should see a therapist.
2006-09-15 08:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mary 4 · 7⤊ 1⤋
You shouldnt have been hitting him there at all at any time. YOu could dammage his young body if you havent already.
I wonder if he has told anyone that you hit him in the "nuts" when you spank him. I doubt seriously if you have told your child's doctor that you discipline him this way as I am sure CPS would meet you at your front door when you arrived back home with your son.
If you question any methods you are using, chances are you shouldnt be doing or using them.
How would you feel if someone spanked you in your groin area? Its very painful, you'd probably do as they asked too.
You could have very well damaged him. Too bad no one knows where you live, you need to be reported to CPS as this is abuse since you are messing with your child's genitalia.
You need some parenting classes.
2006-09-15 08:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by Shalamar Rue 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!! That is a horrible thing to do to a boy of any age. He will grow up thinking that all women have a vendetta against his nuts.
Not only can that physically harm him, it can do emotional damage as well.When he starts getting into serious relationships he might have functional problems caused by emotional damage that you have caused him.
If he is nine now, he can understand when you tell him that he is doing something wrong. There is no reason for you to spank a nine year old, try other forms of discipline.
2006-09-15 08:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dre 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
WOW, I hope that this is some sort of sick joke!
You should NEVER do that! First of all it could be considered a form of abuse, and posibley even sexual abuse!?!?!?!? Secondly, doing this could have really bad long term medical effects! You could cause your son to be steral, or have some type of damage in this area. I think that the perfect age to stop doing this is before they are ever born! The other thing this could cause is sexual problems mentally. I think that you should stop doing this immediatly and take your son to the doctor to get checked out and make sure that you haven't done any damage.
Best of Luck with this, and if you are serious, please stop, for your sons sake.
2006-09-15 08:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by stangwoman 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
My grandmother told me that she used that method of discipline on both of my uncles , no damage done plenty of kids. Apparently paddling and paddling their testicles was acceptable at that time. I have never struck my son in any way. He has been talked to several times in no uncertain terms when there were problems.
2016-09-18 14:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Now i've heard that some people still spank - which of course is wrong - but only to make a point and don't hurt their kids on their testicles :| !!
YOU HAVE ISSUES !! See a psychologist, he may help u, if not lock u up !!!
2006-09-15 08:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
oh a "nut crusher" huh? I think that is child abuse and you need training in how to discipline your children. I got spanked when I was young, but if he is out of control unless you hit his testicles, I think you need parenting help. go to a pastor or counselor. That isn't right.
2006-09-15 08:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by stick man 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Seems a fair target to change a attitude. I bet if more mothers did this ,the world would be much more peaceful.
2014-04-11 12:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by robert c 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are a freak, and my husband is a cop, and said that you need a visit to the corrections facility in your area so you can be touched in inappropriate ways without giving consent. I hope you get what is coming to you.
2006-09-15 08:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You need to be reported to dfacs.
You shouldn't be smacking your kid's nuts to begin with but now he's old enough to think you are wanting to touch him there.
You should stop now or later you will don an orange uniform.
2006-09-15 08:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by Alison 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are a horrible, horrible person and a horrible mother! That is the wrongest thing I have ever heard of and you should be so ashamed of yourself. You are a discrase to us Real Mothers!
2006-09-15 08:29:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋