I'm 6'6'' or so, I am around 300 pounds but its pretty much muscle (I'm a Defensive Tackle for the colleges team) I'm rahter clean cut, intelligent, sincere, kinda and friendly. Other then being a little shy I shouldn't have to many problems with women. But why is it that women always seem to be turned off, either they don't care or are just so stuck up they think they're better then me. I don't get it. Theoretically I'm a great guy, yet girls seem to hate me. It's almost like they're in their own little worlds and I can't get there. Any ideas?
2006-09-15 08:15:13 · 23 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know you so i can't find anything wrong
2006-09-15 08:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by First L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A couple of things...
1) They think you are only a dumb jock
2) You physically intimidate or scare them
3) You might not put off the air of quiet self confidence that most women find so attractive (after all dude you did say you were "shy").
I suspect you are not "shy" on the field and are very confident in your ability as a football player - aren't you? Try to carry that air of confidence about you in the social world without being an as5hole about it. You might also work on your appearence or wardrobe(?) Ask a female friend for input as to what you could do to be more appealing - they love to help guys like you...Good Luck....
2006-09-15 08:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what kind of women do you go for? Barbie? I don't see anything wrong w/ you but I don't know you. Are you psycho? Too needy? Maybe you haven't dated a "real" woman yet. Is your face busted? Some women only care about whats on the outside. If I wasn't married I would like to get to know you. Sorry I'm taken. I know! Are your standards too high? Well I'm sure if your as nice as you say you r you'll definitely find someone. Maybe you should focus on school and football , give finding someone a break and she may fall into your lap!! That's how my husband found me.
2006-09-15 08:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by RASBERRI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet if you put your picture on here, you'd get more than you could handle on replies! For some reason, girls go for bad boys, even though they really want nice guys. You sound very nice, so that right there could be your problem. It's just going to take you time to find the right woman, don't give up!
2006-09-15 08:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you come on to strong for the girls you like and they think that you are stuck on yourself. Or you could be to shy women don't like that either. However you may smell bad. LOL.
2006-09-15 08:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by Betty Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u r trying to attract the wrong girls.....try some with a little weight and a lot less attitude, try a shy girl thats cute and not a knock out bomb shell babe... my Y is on im me...starlight1blonde87
2006-09-15 08:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by starlight1blonde87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you can try being more out going.girls like that in a guy.be confedent.if I were single.... :) the right one is out there for you. Good luck.
2006-09-15 08:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the number one mistake people make is that they choose people who are out of their league. Usually people have a "type" of person that they are attracted too, perhaps you don't fit the bill?
2006-09-15 08:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. The one who like you will be an angel. So, treat her special.
2006-09-15 08:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women want what they can't have. It's just our nature! Don't be so available and willing.
2006-09-15 08:18:23 · answer #10 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are too full of yourself
or maybe something on your face goes terribly wrong
if you have a unibrow, waxxxx!
2006-09-15 08:19:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋