I use to be the type of guy that use to always show up to a womans door at date with flowers or candy or someting. Thing is I got the old lets just be friends speech. Now when I stopped showing up and stopped buying stuff for women, suddendly I became more interesting and a challenge.. thus the reason for my question up top.. When did the idea of buying stuff for women you barely know =getting in good with them. Because quite honestly, it doesnt work ..whats your opinion on trying to impress a woman with gifts early on?
2006-09-15 08:12:08 · 9 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you answered your own question..
2006-09-15 08:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by hennesseywalton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never came in giving gifts to this girl that I liked (Now she's my fiance) Granted, I was 13 and she was 12 so I had no real income to buy her things. (Now we're 20 and 21.) She said that there was something about me that she had to figure out. Something that made me unique from the other guys...I've noticed that women have to outlets: One buddy-buddy status or possible intimacy. And getting gifts definitely puts you in the Buddy-buddy system. I think when you're finally in a relationship, then get her a lil' sumthin'.
2006-09-15 08:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Da Nun Uttas Story 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, unless she's a stupid ho, no real woman would just give it up because some guy buys her flowers. It's nice to be romantic once in a while, but that does not guarantee pussy for the night. A woman chooses who she wants to ****. The man never chooses. He gets chosen. No matter if he approached her with sex, she chooses whether she wants to **** him or not. Don't believe the hype...
2006-09-15 08:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Chocolate_Flayva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you buy them a gift it's like saying I'm not good enough to be with you so let me make it up to you by buying you presents. I don't know if I'd say you're more of a challenge when you stop buying gifts for them, I'd say it comes off as being confident, that you're good enough for them just as you are.
2006-09-15 08:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it wouldn't work, you could buy a girl the world if she wants to sleep with you she will but if she doesn't then she won't no matter what the gift is. It all depends on the type of woman you are dating.
2006-09-15 08:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Honey Eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we want to be sure that we have someone that havea a job, and gives you gifts not only coming home 2 get some so if ur being nice then the ladys see that and thinks ;hes a good man not a cheap a ss hole like they all are ! well some
2006-09-15 08:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you how it is Im sure how old you are but anyways many guys really thought that if they were to buy a some flowers a teddy bear that they would get some and the thing is that many girls liked that and though ahhh how sweet, and then they gave it up, but see not all girls are like that, so then guys continued to give women presents to get it, but Im not saying that all guys are like that!!!!!!
2006-09-15 08:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by preciousprincess8701 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-27 00:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No body ever bought me anything......but they still tried to get some from me cause i was a virgin, but i didn't care about the money and gifts, it was all about, who can make me laugh, and happy.....because growing up i had a tough life with people around me, so i just wanted someone who can confort me.
2006-09-15 08:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Girlish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋