I've been with a girl for about a month and haven't exactly thrilled her in the bedroom. I'm 28 but haven't really been in many relationships. I want to satisfy her and not make her bored. What do I do?
2006-09-15 08:10:00 · 28 answers · asked by rockinrobin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT MY FRIEND !..KEEP AT IT , AND LEARN WHAT YOUR PARTNER LIKES AND DISLIKES ...AND DONT BE A PRUDE , GET IN THERE AND EXPERIMENT !...HAVE FUN! .....GOOD LUCK !......GR1M
2006-09-15 08:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by (\ G®1M R34|Dê® /) 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The person who told you to go watch porn is an idiot, it's the worse way of learning about sex because it's all staged and nothing like reality.
It might not be a problem as you see it, all relationships are a learning process and this happens in the bedroom too.
You will find that one night stands are very rarely good sex because you need to know what turns your partner on, what they like and don't like, etc.
After only a month, you have a long long way to go and there is no way she'll be getting bored yet and don't jump in with a million questions.
Just start by asking (at the right moment, not in front of your parents!) if she likes anything in particular, and if there's anything she'd like to do more of or diffrent and leave it at that untill your pushing all the right buttons.
If she's the right girl for you she'll tell you verbally or otherwise!
2006-09-15 15:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Practice
2006-09-15 15:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by mise 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a girlfriend, you have internet and you ask how to improve urself in bed?
Man.. First of all talk to her, be honest. You can talk while sex, or in neutral situation not to spoil fun. Ask her how she wants it to be. Try cs ^^ then she will describe you all she wants.
Second there are so many nice useful helpful websites about sex. There you can learn the basics and some extra tricks.
Third go down on her button ^^ it will make her crazy, jsut make sure you know how what and where to do...
2006-09-15 15:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by Magnetic 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Practice Practice Practice Practice Practice
2006-09-15 15:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by daveyboyone 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Practice.
2006-09-15 15:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Gone 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look for a wife. Your wife will train you as to what she likes. Remember that females are either to enjoy what you do, or tell you what they like, or do it for themselves and enjoy. If you're not ready to get married yet then start "talking" with your partner, and get all this out in the open.
2006-09-15 15:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
While u r having sex don't be exhausted?proove her that u r so manly to give her the max thrill..Hold tight of her do not let her eyes catching up with any oter thing..
2006-09-15 15:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her. e honest. if there is to be a future she will ubderstand. if she laughs well she is not the one and you move on. this is best because this is stressing you out. and stress is a massive problem to bedroom failures. once you can relax you will enjoy it more, last longer and give her whatever she needs to fil her sexual appetite. get bust talkin or get busy leavin
2006-09-15 15:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by findinforest 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Romance her before you hit the sheets. Take her to a romantic place, write her a poem, get her in the mood for hours and hours in general, and get yourself in the mood, too, and it will all go more smoothly.
2006-09-15 15:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by Tulsa Boy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude, do yourself and your girl a favor by picking up the lastest edition of Mens Health magazine. it's packed with ton's of tips you and your girl would both appreciate! she'll love the fact that you're at least trying.
2006-09-15 15:13:05 · answer #11 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋