ok this guy at my church that has been likeing me for a long time and he been flirting with me forever and he be staring at me intently like he looking through my clothes or something then last night i heard him talking to this gurl and he was like she wants me i could tell and i turned around and he was like see she looking at me and then he was like im gon take her down stairs in tha bathroom and do wat i do and tell her not to scream to loud i dont know if he was talkin bout me but my mom said that at the end we was leaving every one had to say i love and godbye and i know its weird my mom said when he was saying i love you he was looking at me but its alot more things he does that are weird
2006-09-15 07:56:08 · 20 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 15 hes 16
2006-09-15 08:07:09 · update #1
be careful, never be alone when you know he's around if you fear him
2006-09-15 07:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your parents know your feelings... eihter way at least you have extra eyes watching... also call the police and ask what maybe could be done...either way don't stay silent or in an uncomfortable situation... and contrary to popular belief "staying away from him" is not a good thing. Unfortunately it's not a matter of if someone gets you it's only a matter of when if they truly mean to do you harm....call the police, tell your parents and friends and keep yourself safe. good luck
2006-09-15 15:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by lisa n florida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be just trying to show off and think he is being cool but to be on the safe side he sounds like he could be an at risk offender so keep ur distance. The fact that he is saying that means that he has already maybe been thinking it. I would stay away from him...good luck
2006-09-15 15:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont kno--but the best advice i could give you is to stay away from him. Dont put yourself with him when you're alone. Maybe talk to another member of the church who you can trust, and tell them about this man's weird behavior towards you.
2006-09-15 15:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by sha9609 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you seem to be about 12 years old . and you should tell your mom how you feel . This is scary stuff. And second I would stay away from him . avoid being in the same place as him. And Third ,Tell your mom.
2006-09-15 15:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl you gotta watch does type of people. Tell him to stop staring at you and stuff let him know how you feel before it go to far and he does try to do something to you. Good Luck
2006-09-15 15:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be really scared at this point. Sit far away from this person at church. If he keeps making these comments or "bumping" into you and your mom, report him to the authorities.
2006-09-15 14:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mother of One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him or tell your mom what you overheard. dont ever let anyone leave you alone in his presence, stay with someone.but maybe when he said hed tell you not to scream too loud, he was implying that he was a good "lover"
2006-09-15 15:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by Me♥Manatees 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay away from him! he might have been talking about you! and planning to harm you! just make sure your not alone when he's around and if he ever does try to get you to go somewhere to be alone with him say no thanks and leave don't go with him! and if he ever tries anything run away and call the cops! if he starts activley harrassing you you may be able to get a restraining order!
2006-09-15 15:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your mom and stay as far away from him as you can and don't go to the bathroom alone take a buddy
2006-09-15 15:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by carissa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay as far away from him as you can! You should tell someone (like your parents) IMMEDIATELY about how uncomfortable you feel around this person. Your safety should always come first!
2006-09-15 15:03:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋