Well now he asked me out on a date. and the date is saturday i really like him alot he has alot going for his self a good job and a nice car should i go out with him even though he has a girlfriend, but i can tell he really likes me alot cause he comes to see me all the time gives me what i need calls me all the time its like we go toghter but he still has that girlfriend. Should i go on the date with him??????
2006-09-15 07:51:26 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing wrong if you opt to go out on a date with him. After all, they are not yet married so you are not violating any rule against decency.
May be, that guy is still in the process of knowing you better that's why he asked you out. And that is his prerogative as a bachelor. His dating you is not cheating per se and there's no law anywhere else in this world that prohibits a single man to date someone else despite the fact that he has a girlfriend.
So, if you think that a romantic relationship may be in the offing between you, go ahead with your dating him. Try to know him better and assess whether he is really that someone with whom you can have a romantic relatioship in the future.
Then, let Destiny decide for you because if he is really the one meant for you, He will pave the way to their separation and your having a relationship with him If he is not, then Destiny will bring to your path the right man for you someday, somehow. . Good luck.
2006-09-15 08:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here's the answer! Think about it as though you were the girlfriend, if this person is cheating on someone else for you, what is the possibility it won't happen to you? Do you wish to be the reason for the breakup? I would search for another mate, but face this person with these facts so as to keep a relationship possible. Don't be found out about by "Cheaters" the TV show!
2006-09-15 08:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by Gary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and the reason is not just the other girl. That's part of the reason, but the real reason is that - if you like this guy, you want him to make YOU his girlfriend. Saying "no" will make him work harder to have you as his girlfriend.
Now, the even tougher question is - you like him, right? So, if you were his girlfriend, who's to say that he's not going to go out with another girl behind your back?
I think he's playin' the field. He's got the best of both worlds - if you go out with him, then he has a fall-back plan if either one of you break up with him - so he doesn't have to keep you happy.
If you don't, he'll either dump his current girl just so he can go out with you, or he'll quit bothering you - either way, you're not hurt, right?
2006-09-15 07:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by gatesfam@swbell.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you let it get to this point if he already has a girlfriend? I wouldn't date anyone who already has a girlfriend. I wouldn't even waste my time telling him that you'll only go out with him if he breaks up with her, cause if he cheats on her, he'll probably cheat on you! Plus there's a chance he might lie to you.
2006-09-15 07:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by cey12000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You cant be going on a date with a guy that has a girlfriend. He shouldn't even be asking you on a dat. And if he's doing that to her, what makes you think he wouldn't do that to you?
2006-09-15 12:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go on the date. If he really likes you, he can end it with the other girl. Then you can go on that date. Remember, if he's pulling this crap with the two of you now, you could end up as the other girl in the future.
2006-09-15 08:05:14 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. he might have a nice car, good job but he ain`t a nice guy. If he wants more than a one night stand hoping to get lucky he would get rid of the girl first take it from one who has been a player.
2006-09-15 07:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I might would go out with him! If he cares about u that much to call u all the time and go and see u! I would give him a chance i have been there done that!!!
2006-09-15 07:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by ellie19882003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go, but don't allow anything to happen between the two of you (ex. kissing). Try to not fall for him just yet, but you need to find out what the real deal is between him and his girlfriend. If you two are only going out as friends I don't see anything wrong with it.
2006-09-15 07:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding?
he has a girlfriend? And all that impresses you is his money and his car. Get real. This guy has scum bag written all over him. And what makes you think that if he goes out with you, he still won't have other women on the side.
Find someone else
2006-09-15 07:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋