My boyfriend, I've known for almost a year now wants to keep dating other women too.Wants to spend time with me, but won't committ to a long term thing. Am I stupid or should I wait it out?
We are both in our 40's he has been single for 7 years now. Is it the 40 thing, or should I move on???
2006-09-15 07:48:58 · 10 answers · asked by hsoftailbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you want more tell him, if he feels this way because of a bad past relationship i can relate, however he needs to understand your needs as well. be open minded but not taken advantage of. good luck!
2006-09-15 07:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by BRUCE H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I don't think he is thinking of commitment at this time... It's not a 40's thing it's just because of how this person think.. If he really loves you he will do whatever to make you happy.. He's not even there yet.. Move on and find a person who make you happy and go from there
2006-09-15 14:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please go, what is the use. He has made it clear what he wants to do and that is to date other people. Why are you even thinking about this, sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. You deserve to be with someone who respects you and wants to be with you and you alone and if this isn't what he wants, then you are just setting yourself up for hurt and heartache. Waiting for him is just a big waste of time, instead of waiting, try going out with other people and enjoy your freedom.
2006-09-15 14:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else, cuz from my opinion he is looking for someone better than you, if he can find someone then he'll be out for sure, but if he doesnt then he will stick with you.or maybe he just wants his cake n eat it too. Gurl dont waste ya time, it can be tempting to stay but trust me its better off finding some one else to spend time with. Im pretty sure u can find some one better than he is.
2006-09-15 14:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by chantal9311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered your myspace quesrtion. But actually after you say what you say here it has no sense anymore...
Leave!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No matter if a man is 18 or 60 if he wants to keep dating others it will never end. You dont seem to be the person for whom its ok.
Move on, you can do it, he is not worth you.
2006-09-15 15:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Magnetic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on because you never know if one of the girl he is seeing maybe jellies and take it the wrong way
2006-09-15 14:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by pink987489112000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON fast!! he will never change and will never commit to anything more than what the two of you have now....and besides that... he loves the attention thats why he wants to keep dating other women....UNACCEPTABLE!!! move and move fast!! GOODLUCK!!!
2006-09-15 14:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by jess_n_flip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on he not commitment man move on and see someone new.. good luck
2006-09-15 14:53:20 · answer #8 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go .if he comes after you accept him if he don't know that it wasn't going to work from the first
2006-09-15 15:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by nazanin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously you dont deserve that. leave him hun
2006-09-15 14:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by Savannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋