I am not thin but I am not fat too. I am good looking but most ot the people who are attracted to me are fat. I live a nightmare. Why does it happen? Can I do something to attract thin people?Please help...
2006-09-15 07:41:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can understand your pain. I don't consider myself a stud but I am an average, decent looking guy. But for some reason, only ugly, fat chicks are interested in me. You will be happy to hear that it is not just you because all the guys and I at work talk about this all the time. My opinion on it is this. Fat people will take anything that they can get because obviously they are not going to be able to get much. Nothing against obese people it's just that when us nice people show you kindness, don't think that we want you in bed.
2006-09-15 07:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be more concerned about finding someone with integrity and a strong moral compass. Obviously no one wants someone that is obese, but you did say that you yourself aren't thin, so maybe you shouldn't be so quick to reject those that are attracted to you, you may be turning down some really great guys, at least get to know them first before you cast them out like adam and eve from the garden of eden. You don't seem like an equal opportunity lover! And off course that is your perogative!
2006-09-15 14:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you must be right because even your question attract fat guys like me. Have you dated a fat guy. Mayby thats where your blessing ls at. Skinny might not be so appealling if its dopped up, infected, or not right in the head, not saying all skinnies are like that but just dont miss a blessing based on size. I,m 300lbs 5ft 9inches caramel hard working 41yr old man happily married to a thick beautiful black princess with 2 handsome sons......GET YO BLESSING YOUNG LADY!!!
2006-09-15 14:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by hennesseywalton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the same reason why I get all the creepy guys...no idea. It just happens. Whats wrong with larger people though? Get to know them, they may surprise you! Let me guess, you are probably not one of the more popular people at school, right? They probably think that you are a genuinely nice person that might give them a chance, and they are hoping that they'd have a better shot with you then someone more popular
2006-09-15 14:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because you look thin, and the fat people -if you don't know- looking for thins, you need to find someone to get friend before meeting him......
2006-09-15 14:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by raid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you shouldn't be judging people. If you yourself aren't "skinny" as you say then why do you have to be with a "skinny" person. Look at the inside. Outside is just the outside. Good people come in all different sizes. But so do @$$holes.
2006-09-15 14:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by me_n_hannah_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u have something against fat people....... HEY, some big people can't help but to be big..... sounds to me u have the problem not them your self-centered, are you rich too... on top of that...
2006-09-15 14:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoops! People normally go for someone they think they have a chance of getting, so if fat blokes think they can have you maybe you dont look too good, skinny or not!
2006-09-15 14:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im thin mabe u need to think that the fatt people arnt scared but the skinny people are
2006-09-15 14:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by kyle c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only have one thing to say and that is looks is not love ,it mattered to me once no 2 times and my heart got crushed bad ,so would you wish to be judged by your weight???
2006-09-15 14:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋