I'm sick of selfish people. They make my stomach turn.
2006-09-15 07:36:47 · 11 answers · asked by snorkelman_37 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Even when you have great friends (I can't complain) you're still going to have to be your own very best friend, well at least if you're not self destructive...
I've had one best friends for...6 years now and we have had our ups and down, fights and hilarious moments, and the fact that we're still friends after a number of idiot fights, some that have lasted months, makes me believe that we will become old senile old women that go out for coffee on a sunny afternoon to just chat like only women can... (I don't know if this is the answer you were going for, but I just felt like sharing :))
2006-09-15 07:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! you seem to be having a rough time... sorry!
I think you have to try and stay positive, not in any reality can you say that 99% of the worlds people are cruel or selfish....
50% perhaps.
Try to be open with folk and don't judge them too early on, think what you would feel like if a group of actually wonderful people took one look at you and said " yuk! what an old grouch!" based on only a first impression!
If you smile... most people smile back!
Good luck! I hope mankind doesn't let you down too much. I spend most of my working day surrounded by people who either have suffered or want to make people suffer or were caught in the act of making some-one suffer! Yet i have still managed to find a wonderful wife, great friends and some good neighbors.
Give people a chance :)
2006-09-15 07:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Zarathustra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a better question is, where do you find GENUINE friends once you're out of highschool. heh. I have 1 true friend I've known since I was 19 (i'm 35 now) and we communicate long distance now since I've moved. I have not been able to find anyone else who is worthy of my friendship.
2006-09-15 07:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is one sure place to find a genuine friend... and that is within you.
It doesn't matter if the rest of the world is selfish. You don't have to be. :)
2006-09-15 08:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People tend to attract like-minded individuals... Maybe look at yourself and change what is selfish about you... Then you will attract the unselfish friends you want..
2006-09-15 09:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be your friend. I hate selfish people, too.
2006-09-15 07:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Dyma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question. when you find out let me know. as for my best friend- i found him from a pug breeder in sturbridge massachusetts. he is awesome. except picking up those hot little poops in a plastic baggie when we go on walks, its a perfect friendship. and i guess i dont mind doing a little dirty work for him.
2006-09-15 11:03:10 · answer #7 · answered by Mariela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depend on your choice Dont make such people your friend.
And Don't have any wishes from any body except GOD.
This will give you rest from all
2006-09-15 08:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sharik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your'e sure to find a friend at your local SPCA . Adopt one..he'll love you as no other person can and always be your friend.
2006-09-15 07:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Royal Racer Hell=Grave © 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have many friends, allthough the real friends you'll find will stay with you when you have difficult times.
2006-09-15 07:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by Joyce R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋