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I go to college and it seems everytime I see a girl, there's no way to open up a conversation. I see them in the halls but you can't just go up and talk to a random girl. The girls in my classes are all to preoccupied with each other or the guys they already know to care about me. Or they just won't even talk to anyone. In the cafeteria they all have their own little spaces, and its like a sin if you try to go up and talk to them. The same thing at parties, the mall, everywhere. How am I suppossed to meet a girl if they will never give me a chance

2006-09-15 07:28:01 · 7 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

Get off the computer and join a Co-ed club.

Ask several people (guys and gals) in your classes if they'd like to go over the homework with you (study buddies). This is especially useful if you are one of the better students and can assist them to understand the subject better. Start with the people in the seats next to you, so it seems natural and you are not singling out someone.

If you see a female type person carrying something heavy across the campus, go up and ask if she'd like some assistance. Make yourself useful but not pushy. This works especially well (at least it did for me 40 years ago) if you manage to help out a sorority. They might adopt you as a little brother (assuming you are a Freshman), and there are alway some sisters who would find you worth a chance.

Once people realize how wonderful you are, and you loose some of your shyness, you should be able to make some friends, both M and F.

2006-09-15 07:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by SPLATT 7 · 1 0

Find out what one is interested in, and let her know you are considerate of her interests. If she likes horses, find a magazine about horses, and casually give it to her, saying you know she likes horses, and you thought she might like the magazine. It may work, or not - depending on a lot of factors.

2006-09-15 14:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by macosby2003 2 · 0 0

search for a girl who is alone .also you can pay attention to the ones that are looking at you (with a smile maybe)because there are always some girls who you don't mention them

good luck

2006-09-15 14:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by nazanin 1 · 0 0

girls can sense desperation and they probably avoid you for this reason.
Relax, chill out and analyse yourself. If you were a woman would you go out with you the guy?

2006-09-15 14:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0 0

oh honey I feel so sorry 4 you
talk 2 me!
Im down 2 earth!

2006-09-15 14:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Say "Hi!, how you doing?" to every single girl you see on Campus.

2006-09-15 14:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

start with a complement and dont seem eager......

2006-09-15 14:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Su 1 · 0 0

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