i started to love a my bf v much,even still i love him like a mad.but i came to know that he is a flirter,he loved me only for sex.what i have to do now?revenge ?or silent exit?
2006-09-15 07:27:09 · 41 answers · asked by a4m7plzxz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cut your losses and move froward. Don't let him rent space in your head.
2006-09-15 07:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by mimi22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey sugar,I can understand how u feel.Life is unfair and so are people but that's the way this world is.I think what u should do,is dress your sexiest best go near him and when his eyes start to go green,dump him silently but make sure u do this in perso.This way u'll save the embarresment of being dumped and you would have had ur slient revenge.If u do a silent exit,u'll never be able to forget this.and if u do a huge hue and cry in public,things may not be so pretty .Hence I think this is the best way to go about.A bit of both
2006-09-18 03:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by chooseme_only 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a sleezeball-why lower yourself to his level by revenge? You are much better than that It is painful to find out that you have been "used" BUT not all men are like that...just keep on looking and the right one WILL come along.!! You gotta kiss a lot of frogs first!- Also - you might read a small easy to read book called "He's just not that into you". I'm in my forties and I wish I would have read it many years ago (unfortunately it was written then) LOL! Best of luck!
2006-09-15 07:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by snugzee1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exit. But not silently. Give him a piece of your mind. Very loudly. And in a public place. That would take care of revenge also.
2006-09-15 21:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silent exit. Revenge is a waste of good energy and prevents you from focusing on moving along with your life.
Besides, karma takes care of things like that.
2006-09-15 07:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what point is there in revenge? He's acting like an average male adolescent. Big surprise. A better question would be why did you make such a bad choice? Because he was 'hott'? Because he was 'ripped'? Those would be pretty shallow reasons, dont you think? You learned your lesson. Now just get out.
2006-09-15 07:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't LOVE someone for sex You USE them just for sex. I am in the same boat. I think that in your case, maybe you should just let the man go and be a silent ex. I think that's what I will do because I don't want someone who won't respect me, ya know? And to use someone or to lie to them all together is not cool at all. And chances are, the more you leave him alone, the more he will miss you. Maybe he will learn his lesson and not do this to anyone else again. Oh well, just be glad that the next time he's cheating on someone, or using someone for sex, it won't be you.
2006-09-15 07:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not take silent exit because he can use it to another girl so take a revenge and teach him a lesson.
2006-09-15 19:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by valu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silent exit is the best way and what that is just a part of life
2006-09-15 10:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by ljcool19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No revenge it's not good for u. as u have mentioned silently exit.
2006-09-15 20:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by m.shahila m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is cheating. He has used you. Revenge is the last word. If I were you I would cut his **** off so he cannot cheat another innocent person like you. Donot let him go without a punishment.Silent exit donot exits you get me.
2006-09-15 08:13:09 · answer #11 · answered by benny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋