Do you love the girl that you cheat with? Are you thinking about being in a relationship with the girl you're cheating with? Do you feel bad after you do it?
2006-09-15 07:10:12 · 14 answers · asked by Ebony_23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What was going through your mind when you were cheating on your girlfriend? Real men don't cheat.
2006-09-15 07:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, probably not, and yes. i only did that once and it still sucks to think about. there is a sense of searching for the right girl for so long that when you find her, it is tough to turn that switch off and keep it off. sometimes it reappears and the surrounding circumstances are ripe for a disatrous decision. maybe had a couple of drinks after a little fight with the gf, see a girl at the bar who you kinda know and bam! i don't think anyone goes out intending to cheat (or else they are not in a real relationship), it's just that doubt hits at the wrong time and we might make a weak/real bad choice.
2006-09-15 14:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done all sorts of cheating...yes I'm a terrible person.
However, in the interest of answering your question:
If it is a one night stand, I swear to god I am thinking of the girlfriend as I am doing the other girl.
What is tougher is the girl you repeatedly cheat with. My thought process would go like this:
"This is great. Why doesn't current girlfriend like this as much as this girl? Could I date her? I think I like her a lot. Do I really like her a lot? What happens if I drop the current girl for this one? "
After a while though, things go like this:
"this is getting a little bit too close for comfort. I can't spend time with her like this. Why am I spending money and wasting time on a girl I don't like and can't be with? What happens if I KNOCK HER UP? Oh hell no. I'm not staying with this girl."
Then you leave and delete her number from your phone and refuse to speak to her. Your sex life with current girlfriend is reinvigorated for some reason as well.
Now, I am not saying it is a good thing to cheat, but it reaffirms who you should be with. And yeah, I have a huge guilt trip hanging over my head. Hope she doesn't find out.
2006-09-15 14:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I am not married to that girl,, that is not cheating to me.. that is only part of my being alive,,, and living a life..
But if I am married and I will have an affair with another girl,, then that is cheating and I would be guilty and maybe will not have full erection because I will be thinking of my wife rather than the girl who is under me. no matter how beautifull she is..
That is what we call GUILTY CONCSIENCE.
2006-09-15 14:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say it everyone cheats in there lifetime or have the thought of it
i m not many men if i was to cheat i will feel so bad after ward especially if my gf is so good to me
the only way i will cheat is the girl is soo freaky hot
2006-09-15 14:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
my bandmate used to tell me that all men are polygamous.. and i don't agree with that.. there maybe many guys who are cheating but there are also guys who are faithful... i have a girlfriend and i don't want to hurt her.. coz i don't want to experience karma.. much better if the guy would be honest.. and of course if the guy have a conscience.. he would be guilty... Godbless.. =)
2006-09-15 14:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by jeeboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes we do feel bad,
most of the time we cheat just out of lust for another person
or because our current GF is not taking care of business in the bedroom.
2006-09-15 14:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You think, "Wow this is so awesome, This is so much better than my girlfriend!!!" Then afterwards you feel saved! like you did something wonderful that yourgirlfriend doesn't know about. Fantastic!
2006-09-15 14:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dunno, from friends talking to me about it, becuase iv not done it myself, that they do feel bad, its just when the chance to cheat comes up, they dont care.
2006-09-15 14:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by Irish ME 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you're all f#cking assh*les and you should be castrated!!! You don't deserve to have anyone.
2006-09-15 14:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by verony 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋