He broke up with me!?

Question

Im 26 hes 32 and last night he broke up with me. Omg I can not stop crying or thinking about him. I love so much but I got really drunk twice and acted stupid 9not cheating or anything like that)Hes just afraid this behavior will continue How do I numb the pain ? He is a grown man and knows what he want, its too bad it isnt me. Any advise would be helpul.

Answer 1

well for one chick NO DRINKING becuase then once you sober up you will feel the pain yet again and then you will always stay drunk and deffinetly never get him back. but talk to him about it be his friend show you can change that about you and if he truly loves you he will come around! Also be active, hang with friends, write, pretty much keep busy! dont get it get to you becuase guys come and go and there will always be another guy you will love. look at me after losing someone i loved a year later i met this wonderful guy justin, but he and i are only friends but my point is i fell in love again you can to he isnt the last dude in the world! just laugh,smile,hang with friends, stay active,dont think about it, put his pictures away, and NO DRINKING it never solves problems it create them

Answer 2

This will be so hard at first but if you can do it. I guarantee it will work.
Do not contact him or ask about him with any one. If some one mentions his name. Make sure you immediately tell this person that you are no longer interested, you rather not talk about it. You have moved on.
Look your best, then stop by a place you know he may be at, make sure he looks at you then immediately leave. Do not talk to him for a good week, despite who contacts who.
He will come to you, soon enough.
If you love him as you say you do, then tell him to help you not to make a fool of your self to drink the way you did.
We all make mistakes, sometimes we repeat the same mistake over and over. We need to remember that it is ok.

Answer 3

Go throw back a few more bottles...