Ms A like Mr B . Mr B like Ms C. Mr B is Ms A's boss. Mr B treat Ms A as fren.
How can Ms A win his heart over?
Mr B already told Ms C tt he like her . But from a reliable source, Ms C said that she's starting to have a little feeling for Mr B.
Ms A does not work with Ms C
thru fren fren fren fren . ....Ms A knows about Ms C
Mr B is a boss and a fren to Ms A; and vice versa.
What should Ms A do? to wait or to tell him straight. But i guess Ms A does not have the guts.
2006-09-15 06:38:00 · 21 answers · asked by ii nid eu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of cuz it would be best if Mr B could accept Ms A.
But if Mr B reject Ms A then they'll be awkward forever.
2006-09-15 16:13:07 · update #1
so should Ms A tell Mr B about her feeling? But after all Mr B is her boss ..
2006-09-17 06:42:38 · update #2
If Ms A is quitting her job. Should she just tell Mr B about her feelings?
2006-09-18 04:17:28 · update #3
Let's deal only with part of your first paragraph:
Mr. B is Ms. A's BOSS.
THEN MS A SHOULD NOT GET PERSONALLY INVOLVED WITH HIM and find someone else.
Let's add a bit more here:
you are desperately hoping that a lot of pro-A answers will help prop you up in an ill-considered move that you MUST NOT MAKE!
oftentimes people mistake kindness for interest and/or the desire to engage in a relationship. I'll bet that your BOSS is well-regarded. He probably has a good personal touch, and in your mind you are mistakenly interpreting it as the possibility for something more.
Unfortunately for you, your BOSS is involving himself with someone else.
There is something else you have to consider.
Your BOSS will no doubt be aware of the various sexual harrassment suits that have been filed over the past decade or more. He has to be cognizant of the fact that he has to keep an appropriate distance from female employees, particularly those reporting to him directly or indirectly. As your BOSS he will never take the risk of ending up on the receiving end of such a lawsuit. If he had had any interest in you, I can guarantee you, he would have spoken to you about it and/or suggested a transfer for you that would have taken you out of his employer/employee relationship.
For your own sake, and for the sake of your friendship with this man, you have to back off. Way off. The farther the better. If you keep everything on a business level you are protecting yourself as well as your BOSS, whom you value highly.
And keep this in mind: not telling him is NOT a sign of "not having the guts to tell him" but the sign of a prudent, mature person who is able to keep a level head in a situation that has a lot of potential to become very, very ugly.
2006-09-15 06:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by kerangoumar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really a love triangle just three people. the lines don't actually make for a triangle but to be honest i think Ms A is out of luck. First of all an interoffice thing is not a good idea and secondly if Mr B and Ms C are developing a thing then stay away from embarassing yourself.
2006-09-15 06:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by poof10958 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ms A needs to find a new guy.
Mr B wants Ms C and Ms C wants Mr B Ms A is not in the equasion.
2006-09-15 06:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ms A need to find Mr D
2006-09-15 06:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by clamshell 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would be ideal if Mr B could tell Ms A that he only treat her as a friend. So that they still can have the friendship and things won't be so confused too.
2006-09-16 01:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the one that wants to be with Ms A will know he wants her and wouldn't even think twice about Ms C but if Ms A thinks that Mr B is right for her..... if you have nothing to lose by telling him and losing everything if you don't by all means tell Mr B
2006-09-15 06:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ALRIGHTY THEN! Wow talk about confused! How to win him over? I would say like u win over any man! Dress to kill when u r around him. Make sure you look like a million bucks! Keep an open honest smile on your face- that will make you more approachable to him and to all others. ALWAYS be yourself and dont pretend to be something u r not. Do special little things for him. Like getting him a hot drink on a cold day or a cold drink when u get one for yourself! Take him to dinner so u can play footsies under the table!!!!
2006-09-15 06:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ms A just needs to cowgirl up, other wise she will loose her opportunity
2006-09-15 06:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by scotdic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I always hated word problems... sorry i get lost... whos fren again?
2006-09-15 06:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Reaction 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how can it be a love triangle when he doesnt like you????
( i assumed that coz u said your boss likes the other gurl)
well, tell him now before its too late, those two are not yet officially together.
take your chance now and save yourself from resentment and regret and lifetime asking of "what ifs" ..
2006-09-15 06:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋