My boyfriend asked me to dress up like a schoolgirl for his birthday in 3 weeks. I dont mind doing this for him, but Ive never "dressed up" for anyone before and am a little nervous and self conscious. Any tips on how to be more confident and ideas on what to do after Im all dressed up?
2006-09-15 06:28:04 · 9 answers · asked by nicekitty_meeooww 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're not kids - he's grown and I'm grown. It's a very common request and fantasy for some men.
2006-09-15 06:47:08 · update #1
I'm going to assume this is for a "private" party.. just you and him.
yeah... you are going to feel wierd... uncomfortable... strange even. but you say you don't mind doing it.. so if you don't then you really need to just throw yourself into the part. he wants you to become that school girl. Does he have a particular outfit he is thinking of? (e.g. catholic school girl - blue skirt, white top, white bra, white panties, calf high stalkings) or something else?
you could always research the part by looking at a few porns that have that theam, but for the most part just act like you are about 16 and you will do just fine. the thing to remembeer is have fun with it... become that "girl". wear the outfit around your house a few times so you are comfortable in it... try acting out by yourself wearing the outfit.. watch tv and respond in your new school girl persona. it will all help!
2006-09-15 06:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're the only schoolgirl he fancies its ok, after all what goes on behind closed doors is nobody elses business but your own. Just imagine you are in your normal clothes and this should help you feel better in yourself. After you're dressed up then do whatever the mood dictates. I notice you dont state your age or his for that matter. I would be very wary of anyone who has a fixation with school children.
2006-09-15 06:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by freddiem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I imagine its a bit intimidating but realize just how much control over him you have in this scenario.
He's getting a fantasy of his fufilled, and you're going to make him so excited..... keep that in mind and feel the power you have over him.
You need to lose yourself in the play a bit, and he'll be very pleased.
I had a girlfriend that was VERY self-concious in similar situation...once she realized how much it turned me on, and that she was very hot in her outfit she calmed down and we had a great time.
The next thing to do is to suprise him with a little dressup... show up at his door in a long coat with something hot underneath....
2006-09-15 06:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by SillyQuestion 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's hot -- and no, your b/f does NOT have pedophile issues, they even have naughty school-girl night at my favorite bar, it's rather common.
Don't be nervous, just get a short plaid skirt, a while blouse, and bobby socks. Oh, don't forget to put your hair in pigtails, that's the most important part.
Afterwards, I suggest you strip for him. You guys could even get into a bit of role-playing if you like.
He'll never forget it.....
2006-09-15 06:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-15 12:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend he is the teacher and you need to get a good grade
2006-09-15 06:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
take a shot..and watch lolita..then just do it. if he doesn't like it...call me!!!!
i actually prefer nurses and older women..but anyway..have fun!!
2006-09-15 06:33:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hw oldr u two
2006-09-15 06:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by MARK C 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think your bf has some pedaphile issues.
2006-09-15 06:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋