are there any women out there any single women out there . that know's what tru love is . and why is it hard to find some one to fall in love with.
2006-09-15 05:54:57 · 18 answers · asked by bluehair_79 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because if you are single & already experienced true love or what you thought was true love and lost it, you get bitter and cynical about going thru it all again.
Sorry if that's not what you were expecting.
CT
2006-09-15 05:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not single, I've been with my husband for 20 years, I was 18 when I started going out with him. I am not sure that I know what true love is even at 38. I know that I love him, but I don't know that I have ever been the way that you see people on TV or maybe nobody is truly that way. I guess you just go with the flow and hope for the best and one day you'll be old that is that.
2006-09-15 13:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by loveandpeace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's hard because people want to fall in love in stead of knowing love they can share. Infatuation is easy to jump in and out of, but when you find someone who you are infatuated with, you can be comfortable with, and share everything with, it's a good chance that could be the one. I question soul mates, if this exist or not, but it is hard finding someone like this. It's better to know what you want or don't want than jumping into bed with someone who is the wrong one. I feel like an idiot about my last relationship because I was selfish and didn't like to compromise. I liked rousing emotions to start a fight just to see if there were emotions in my ex. You live and learn, but my thoughts on true love are sacrificial and selfless. You have to give up yourself for that person and you would because that how much you love them, but know that you don't need love to define who you are. You can be secure enough within yourself to know that you don't need total dependence, but can share anything even when it makes you vulnerable.
2006-09-15 13:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by 4me2no&u2findout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one person out there that is your TRUE love. This is why it is so hard to find someone to fall in love with. If you are looking for true love then you need to find the one that is perfect for you. If you are just looking for love it will be easier to find. But who wants just love when you can have true love?? Good Luck finding your true love!!
2006-09-15 12:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by unbnewf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys believe love has to deal alot with sex. thats so not it at all true love is all the little things you do for someone just because you dont even need a reason you think about them constantly you go to a store and get there favorite food or pick them up a shirt or something just cause .you know everything about them.its like you cant see yourself or your life complete without them in it. it takes a lot of patience and time
2006-09-15 13:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman, A single woman. And I gave up the search... I know someday the right guy will find me, it's too stressful to look. Sit back relax and enjoy the ride if it is meant to be it will find you!
2006-09-15 13:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by kourtney j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,I am single, I want and don't mind a true love. I know I have a true love in my heart, but I can not find anybody to share it with. I wish I know why it is hard to find one. at age 29 I will be half way done sharing all the sweet, loving, etc................................
2006-09-15 13:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by lalune 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depend on who your are with most often. If you cannot find the ONE within your group of friends, try to meeting new friends in other different gruops. Explore yourself, go places, do different things. More people you meet and know, the better chance to find the ONE.
2006-09-15 13:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by lekmay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not single, but I do know what true love is.
2006-09-15 12:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm single and i do know what true love is, ive experienced it, but after losing it, i dont know if its something i want again
2006-09-15 12:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋