This girl i went on a date with on monday is confusing me, i guess im a guy lol!
but we went for a meal and talked for ages, then went to a movie it was great. then she txt me that nite at like 2 in the mornin sayin she had a great time i said i did too. next day she suggested we should go see another movie i was excited thought it was my lucky day. then since then she has gone kinda cold not txtin much and small pointless messages on myspace whats goin on?
2006-09-15 05:45:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She maybe wasn't sure after the first date, and arranged the second one to make up her mind. I think you have to accept that she has decided you are not for her. This doesn't mean you are not attractive to other girls out there, it is just a question of finding one who will reciprocate your feelings. I would wait to see if she contacts you again and in the meantime get out there and enjoy yourself and if you meet someone else, then it is her loss. Good luck.
2006-09-15 06:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, there's 2 possibilities. First, she really likes you and it scares her a bit. Second, she likes you, but doesn't want to go out with you. Either way you need to be open and honest with her. Tell her you like her and thought you had a good time together and ask her if she's gone off you. What have you got to lose? At least you'll have a definite answer. I have my fingers crossed it's reason number 1 x
2006-09-15 12:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Oldfruit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thought she was being a bit too keen and pulled back a little. Or maybe she is just playing hard to get. Either way, keep going, keep in touch and show her that you like her - it sound like it might be worth a try. If you really like her it's too early to give up just yet!
2006-09-15 12:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Fluffy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she had a bad day. Keep going and wait for a trend to develop.
2006-09-15 12:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she`s most likely changed her mind,that always happens to me,everything starts on a really good note,then suddenly,without any warning what so ever,all contact is cut off!
2006-09-15 13:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by CHARLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds to me like she's playing it cool 'cos she doesn't want to scare you off.......but ask her to make sure! Game playing is such a waste of time!
2006-09-15 18:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by nlj1520 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that someone has been talking to her and shes backed off a bit thats all bide your time
2006-09-15 13:48:23 · answer #7 · answered by the little helper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can see youre not gettin into it as much as she is so shes slowing down, doesnt want to embarrass herself.
2006-09-15 12:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably scared to get to clingy cos she really likes you & doesnt want to drive you away
2006-09-15 13:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by Smile-for-me :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes in a mood or not withit or maybe somthing's upset her or maybe it was just for a laugh?!?! why don't you ask her?
2006-09-15 12:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋