I love my boyfriend and I believe he does too. I have noticed lately that during my period he doesn't like to do any kind of love and s*x. Before he allowed me to do oral for him, and give me anal intercourse during my period, but now nothing. Is he incharge with someone or he does not like me anymore.
2006-09-15 04:31:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not selfish at all. It sounds like you might be selfish. Why don't you respect his wishes and quit pushing him to have sex with you during your period
2006-09-15 04:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what if the tables were turned? What if YOU were the one who didn't want it during your period and he got angry at you and accused you of being selfish? Most women, and I'm sure you're included, would think he was a jerk, that he only care about sex, that HE'S selfish, and doesn't he care about your feelings?
He did it before, but felt like it wasn't a turn-on. I think it's caring and completely UNSELFISH for him to not do it at a time when it's uncomfortable.
2006-09-15 04:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by j_conway83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just doesn't want it as much. Sex isn't the most important thing out there in a relationship. Usually when people get enough of something they don't need it all the time.
2006-09-15 04:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think he does, however I also think he might be worried about getting you pregnant. If that's the case then all he's done is changed his behavior accordingly.
Or he might like you, however he might be getting involved with someone else. I Think that the best thing you can do, is talk to him about & go from there.
2006-09-15 04:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him, maybe he thought it would be a great idea in the beginning, but after several times, he would rather wait until that time of the month is over with
2006-09-15 04:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually the longer you are together the less you need sex to feel close. you connect on a different level. try making things more interesting, try different things. i really wouldn't worry about a few days a month though of not getting any.
2006-09-15 04:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just squeamish about sex during your period. A lot of men are. It doesn't mean he's cheating.
2006-09-15 04:37:31 · answer #7 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me its nasty to do that when your its your time of the month! Point balnk. Second uhm... Its not about selfishness its maybe about caring. Have you talked to him about it?Ask him he changed his mind on it.Ask him if his feelings changed, but be cool with it. Take it easy on him. Be real
2006-09-15 04:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by SiSi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is he probley is with someone else.I know that some guys don't want to have se w/ their girl while mensturel because they don't want to get blood on them
2006-09-15 04:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Manda 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋