why are parents and siblings so hard to live with?

Question

i dont live with my parents but theyr constantly nagging me. i live with my bro' and its hard to cope with both.

Answer 1

because of love...the deeper you love someone or someone loves you the more they care about you and the more they feel comfortable around you. The more they feel comfortable with you the more honest they are with you. When someone is truly honest with you they will not neglect to point out things about you that bother them. But they do it in love with good intentions at heart (for the most part). This is why it is hard to get along at times with parents and siblings. They want to make your life as perfect as they possibly can and have only the best at heart for you, sometimes this leads to them to rejecting choices we make for ourselves, this is where fights enter the picture. The important thing to remember is that, if there were no fights, there would also be no love or concern for us.

Answer 2

Be grateful that you have them!

To answer your question, the more people you live with, the more compromising you have to do. Each person has a different personality which means the various personalities in a family don't always mesh well together.

For instance, you may enjoy playing sports while your sister loves to read. Or, you love to eat steak, but your brother is a vegetarian. See the conflict? Each of you has different preferences, hobbies and maybe even beliefs. The key is to finding a way to live peacefully with each other while not making anyone give up their individuality.

Answer 3

As a child it's tough to agree with your parents, so living with them will be hard too. Try living with anybody you don't agree with and they tell you what to do and you don't like that. Same goes with a sibling. But all that usually changes in time. As one gets older, you see things differently, and also if you move out you get closer with your parents or siblings, as odd as that sounds.

Answer 4

The kinfolk in all probability sense youre unhappy living with them and that i dont blame you. you will continually be an intruder as youre no longer a sibling i think of what yet somebody else right here mentioned is physically powerful, you will desire to pass out your self and share with somebody to shrink expenditures. Then your bf can come over each and every time. you will desire to be extra independant and do issues the form you decide directly to do them, i wouldnt stay miserabily merely to healthy somebody else, you decide on a existence too. on the top of the day you will in basic terms substitute into green with envy which you sacrificed a lot for somebody who didnt return the favour. If youre living with him reason he will pay the lease then initiate thinking of suggestion on a thank you to coach and prepare your self so which you would be able to stay independantly and stay the existence you decide on. in case you progression out he would take you heavily and pass out with you, on the 2nd hes no longer taking your emotions into attention

Answer 5

If your parents (I suspect two of them) and your siblings (I suspect at least two or more) are hard to live with, maybe it's time to ask yourself where do you fit in this situation. This is especially true if you are the only one with difficulty getting along. What I'm saying is, perhaps it's you, not them, who is the problem. Of course, I could be wrong, but maybe you should look at yourself too.

Answer 6

Hi

I empathise completely. After being independent for 15 years, my parents have moved in with me and my family. So far they have been here for 2 months when it was originally for 3 week s(whilst waiting for their new house to be ready), and are due to be here for at least a further month, and they are driving me nuts!!

I think sometimes those that love us think they are doing what they think is best, and in our best interest, however, what they fail to realise sometimes is that we are independent human beings, and that the world would not collapse if they did not interfere.

I would challenge them in a very positive and assertive way, and explain how you feel when they tread on your toes.

Answer 7

Ever hear the saying you can pick your friends but not your family. Well there you go. You have to live with them and there is no other way around them. Unless you want to exclude yourself from them totally. Good luck!

Answer 8

They just are - it's one of those things. You probably find it hard to live with them all because you are so alike. In the event of you needing somebody though, your family will always always be there no matter what so it aint all bad!

Answer 9

I would have to say because you are around them 24/7 and they will be there for the rest of your life.

Answer 10

Because they are the people you see everyday, and somtimes it's okay but you do clash every once in a while. Best thing to do is to keep ur space