does this make me a weird-o? right now im seeing a 25 yo, other than the bed we dont have alot in common. will i ever grow out of this infatuation with younger ladies?
2006-09-15 04:16:31 · 6 answers · asked by ranz12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't make a difference until you pick the right woman. My husband and I are 10 years apart. We have the majority of our interests in common, only a tiny bit of stuff we agree to disagree about. We met when I was 31 and he was 41. 2 years later we're still going strong. Just pick the right gal!
2006-09-15 04:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not a weirdo, just a saddo.
what do you think you have in common, if you had no money do you think she would be interested? I bet you are not not on benifits?
Young women use men like you for many reasons, but as soon as you start to say no to buying something or doing something or try to have a real relationship, it will end, because men like you are one a penny, two a penny for young women.
Enjoy it while you have it, but ask yourself why you don't want a real relationship, the delusion that anyone that age wants you as a life partner is only funny till you start crying the tears of reality.
2006-09-15 11:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm thinking you will. I've always liked guys a year or two older than me, but for some reason, I've been attracting them younger lately. I don't know what changed, but yeah, it's all seasonal, I think. Well, for some. My stepfather preferred younger women...my mother was 19 years younger than him. After Mother died, the jerk went out (reasonable amount of time, I will add) and married someone almost 30 years younger. So, for some, it doesn't change...not even the age of the women....lol.
2006-09-15 11:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that you are only seeking physical attraction, this would explain why you haven't anything else in common. Lots of men are physically attracted to younger women but emotionally and maturity wise you are on a different playing field. I guess as long as you are content with only a physical relationship and not a deeper emotional one you'll continue doing what you are doing now. It all depends on your priorities in a relationship.
2006-09-15 11:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Karen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not weird. I know a lot of men who prefer younger women. Maybe it is instinctual, maybe it is some underlying psychological issue. There are a lot of attractive women out there and you will find one who you connect with on a physical and mental level.
2006-09-15 11:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you're not weirdo. you just have a young spirit. Some woman doesn't care what looks you have but they looks on your personality and spirits. To make urself more confident, u could do some exercises so you have good body build and try not to be too stressful. if u get too many stress and angry to many times u will get old faster. Try always to be nice, happy and smile everyday, it will help.
Believe me
2006-09-15 11:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by luke s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋