i want to take back my virginity befor i get married
2006-09-15 04:14:01 · 36 answers · asked by thmnbr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Either you are a virgin or you're not. All the surgery in the world can't change that. Is your future husband a virgin?
2006-09-15 04:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think that really counts, I mean no mater what you still had sex. Not that it's bad thing, it's just it's a little late. All you're gonna have is you hymen back. Also with science the way it is, the hymen is a very bad sign for virginity as it isn't always accurate. So in the very end after much money spent, you're still not gonna be a virgin. You only get it once.
2006-09-15 04:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by amish_renegade 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible. It is quite expensive and there is a painful recovery. But, to tell you the truth if you speak to a few men, ask them if they like to have sex with a virgin. Most will say no. You can't go back in time, let it be. You can repair the hymen, but you still will not be a virgin. Do a little bit more research. My sister was a ER nurse and there was a patient that came in after having sex after she had the surgery and she was hemmoraging. Just leave it be...
2006-09-15 04:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by Left Port Redd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having hymen repair surgery does not make you a virgin again. Once you've lost your virginity there is no way on earth to get it back. The deed is done. If you are lying to your future husband about this, you are building a relationship on a lie.
2006-09-15 04:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by AzOasis8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is such a surgery and like any it may be costly. You cannot "take back" your virginity. What you want to do is make him believe that you are a virgin, but won't that be starting your relationship on a lie. I know for some the reason can be cultural or a devastating circumstance, but what you're trying to do will not change the fact that you're not a virgin.
2006-09-15 05:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is, it's expensive, and it could have complications.
But you can't really change the past. Why not start from here. From now on you can refrain from sexual activity.
It's more about being the most you can, and guarding the gifts that you have. You don't have your virginity anymore, but you can reclaim you purity.
Be careful to not put yourself in the situation where you'll be tempted again. Try not to be alone with guys, especially ones you're dating.
Talk to your pastor's wife honestly (or a pastor) they'll understand and help you from here on out.
Your future husband will thank you.
2006-09-15 04:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plastic surgeons that can assist with this; however, I think that the important question is WHY do you feel that you have to restore your physical virginity before marriage?? It doesn't take away what you have done AND alot of women have a "broken" hymen before they even have sex due to athletics or other activities.
2006-09-15 04:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by qtpie2526 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of virgins out there without an intact hymen because of visits to their obgyn. Unless you can go back in time and not have sex with everyone you have had sex with, your not a virgin. When I got married, I suggested that my future wife have her obgyn take care of the hymen. I did not want to cause her pain and I did not want to her to bleed on the sheets at the hotel on the honeymoon.
Are you doing this for yourself or your future hubby?
2006-09-15 04:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't have your hymen fixed. There is a surgery, but it's not worth it rigth now.
If you're Christian you can be a born-again virgin. Doesn't take much but a change of heart.
You shouldn't have to alter yourself for your fiance, or to feel like a virgin again. Why not accept that you are not a virgin and move on?
2006-09-15 04:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that they do surgery in japan which at least creates the illusion of a hymen which would fool a man, so the answer is a qualified 'yes'.
where else it can be done and how much it costs is a different question as is that of whether this is something you really should do. isn't it starting a marriage off on a dishonest note?
2006-09-15 04:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Boring 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Apparently they do it Japan all the time. Only another doctor who does similar procedures would be able to tell if the hymen had been artificially reconstructed. And as long as the girl doesn't act like she knows what she's doing under the bedsheets, no one'll know any different. A girl's got to have some secrets after all...
2006-09-15 04:18:31 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋