I just found out that my girlfriend of the past 2 yrs has been having lesbian affairs on the side. Now Im not against lesbians but for some reason I am totally pissed off about my girl doing this behind my back. Its almost like its worse than if she had been sleeping around with another guy.
We've been talking for the past few days--ever since I found out--and I can't seem to get the mental image out of my head. She swears she has stopped seeing her girlfriends and then has the audacity to offer to bring one home sometime if it will make me not throw her out. What the hell kind of response am I supposed to give to this question?????
2006-09-15 04:09:27 · 13 answers · asked by Youwant2beme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This relationship obviously has trust issues and it sounds like it's coming to an end.
I suggest that you accept the fact that this relationship is going to end... and get over the emotional stuff that goes with that.
And for crying out loud man.... LET HER BRING HER GIRLFRIENDS HOME!! AND GET YOU SOME THREESOME ACTION DAWG!!!!
I know it hurts/sucks now... but in a year or so, you'll thank me.
2006-09-15 04:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a girlfriend do that to me and I live by the motto once a cheater always a cheater so i left her and then hooked up with her girlfriend at the time. I love bi girls...I still can't believe I am good friends with both of them still
2006-09-18 07:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, what a great question and interesting problem to have...
many guys would kill to have this issue, but your not one of them obviously. the main problem is trust between the two of you now, and in my opinion, there is no way that she can regain that since you cannot be with her 24hrs a day 7 days a week....
you'll have to decide to live with her sexual habits or possibly just end the relationship so you can mentally recover and move on with your life!
2006-09-15 04:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live it up, try the threesome. You have nothing to lose (she's already sleeping with other women), if you don't like it you can always kick her out. If you do like it you got two girlfriends instead of one. Just don't get married.
2006-09-15 04:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HER A** WHETHER IT'S A MAN OR A WOMAN SHE STILL CHEATED! I FEEL YOU IF MY MAN CHEATED WITH ANOTHER DUDE IT WOULD BE WAY WORSE IT LIKE "FOR REAL!" SCREW HER APPARENTLY YOUR RELATIONSHIP DIDN'T ME SQUAT TO HER AND MOST MEN WOULD BE LIKE WELL DUDE YOU SHOULD TRY AND DO BOTH OF THEM OR THE THREE OF YOU SHOULD BE I SOME SORT OF WEIRD RELATIONSHIP, NO YOU SHOULDN'T CAUSE THE FACT IS THAT SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU SO MOVE ON. SHE DOESN'T EVEN WANT MEN, YOU NO LONGER FIT INTO THE EQUATION
2006-09-15 04:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a girl? you sound like one to me. A real guy will call his girlfriend, ask her to kneel down and pray fervently and cast that demon of lesbianism away from her. Be a real guy.
2006-09-15 04:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by dearson b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cheater is a cheater, whether it is with a female or male. Dump her and find an honest woman.
2006-09-15 04:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's Bi. You have to decide if you're okay with an open relationship. If you keep her, even if she swears that she'll be monogamous, I really doubt that she will be.
2006-09-15 04:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by erin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have the full right to be pissed.... sleeping with a girl is as bad as sleeping with a guy.
2006-09-15 04:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cheated even it was with a girl......... i say either dump her or work things out and defintly let her bring a friend over
2006-09-15 04:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋