except for ruining our country. men have changed. since i was born in 69. men use to court women with style and finess. there are a great deal of men in prison. there are a lot of rapest and child molesters. there are cheaters and liars. a large amount of men beat their women. and what about the drug dealers. there are a large amount of dead beat dads. what about the ones who still live at home with mom. yes we do still have a great deal of good men out there. but the odds are lower. and to top it off the good men that are left are mostly taken so my odds of finding a good man are like a needle in a haystack. so in your opinion what has happened to the oldfashioned good man out there. plz no smart remarks. and plz dont say women do it to cuz im not talking about women right now.
2006-09-15 04:06:18 · 11 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we all know that men are ******* up way more than women so all these men who are responding the way they are know where they can go.
2006-09-15 04:23:56 · update #1
I am not sure, what happened to the male race. Yes there are alot of men in prison, drug dealers and total chaos. You odds of finding a good man out there are a little slim. Alot of them are taken or are going into hiding because they like being single. I hope that your journey is on the right path and that you will find the man that your looking for. If not being single isn't such a bad thing and I enjoy it completely.
2006-09-15 04:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop the discrimination! I was born in 68. What a line a crap! Everything you are saying mirrors women also. If women were truly good to their men we would not join the military. I dont remember any style or fitness that you are taliking about, what I do remember is (Drive ins) and sex on the first date (dont deny this). Rapists, molesters and prisoners consist of women also. I know a guy whos wife was arrested for beating him and his children. I know a friend who bought a half a pound of cannibus from a drug dealing CHICK! Moms can be dead beats also. The good men you talk about found a good woman and will not deal drugs or join the military and will not be with a woman who thinks the way you do. The old fashion good man was from the early 1900s and we are in the 2000s. You need to stop and think.....
Maybe you should be with a woman?
2006-09-15 11:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Couple of things to start -- I don't believe there are more rapists and child molesters, I believe due to the media we hear more about them. In this area, I believe our society has gotten much better.
Men are having a rough time right now. Since the beginning of the Women's Rights Movement a lot of scrutiny has been cast on the traditional roles that men once had and mostly it's been stripped from them.
The role of the Authority Figure in a relationship or family has vanished. The role of Protector, the role of Sole Provider, the role of having Due Sex has been trashed by our society. Women feel zero need to honor those traditional roles.
Women in their push for Equality have been relentless on every front using Quick Offense at even holding a door open or crying Victim and then openly plotting Revenge.
Our current sexual harassment laws have forced men wanting to initiate a date -- a risk to his job and career.
Men have been forced to be passive in our society. Men have to define themselves in a role of their partners choosing. Meaning if I like you, you get to decide how much power I have in the relationship.
The evidence is staggering.
Women in Japan are choosing to have their first child at the average age of ... 27! They want to have their career first, Japan is very worried that there will not be enough caregivers for the elderly in the next generation.
For the first time in history, more women are attending college than men. Men are turning their backs on women and women are so focused on success they look up eventually and wonder where did all the good men go?
There is a huge backlash to this trend with the increasing numbers of people joining the church. The church provides a clear definition of the man's and woman's role that very many find comfort in.
If you are looking for an old-fashioned man -- he is either in the church or can be found battered and bruised and essentially dismissed by our society.
2006-09-15 11:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm new to this site. I had a question the other day and started playing around with it. I hit my limit of how many questions I could answer in one day... 20 I think it was. I can see that you have answered allot of questions so that tells me that you spend a bunch of time on this site. I can see how this can get addicting... There are good and bad people all over the world... Always have and always will... If you want to find a good man then get out there and start living and get off of the computer so much. Or if you don't want to go out try e-Harmony or plenty of fish. I'm not trying to be mean just trying to show you a perspective that you may or may not already know... You have to meet people to meet people... Get out of the house and smile... Take a chance... You may get hurt or you may find the perfect guy for you... Life is risky... Take care and good luck...
2006-09-15 11:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by BECB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to see a good man find one that volunteers to help other people and doesn't expect anything back . Yes it kind of hard to find men that do things like that but they are out there .I'm one and taken . but it was a job for me too . I did find the right woman and I think you will find the right man because there is one or two left out there . Take my advice !!! VAN
2006-09-15 11:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Van H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have noticed what your talking about my conclusion to this is there is way to many young parents out there or even single parenting that this parents don't raise there kids right. Some times you need both parents to teach them from a male or female side of life and there isn't parents are so young now a days that they are to busy being young and don't realize there parents not that they cant have fun but the priorities are not right. I strongly believe that this comes from where your parents and how you are raised that's why have kids when your ready because its not only about changing diapers and feeding them wheres the love gone? That's just my opinion.
2006-09-15 11:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because of the current liberal agenda. You are very correct about it being harder to find a nice guy, the ones that aren't taken are very few and far between. Some of the nice guys gave into the pressure and became "bad boys".
I try to be a nice guy by keeping my distance, that way you don't get much attention, and because of that you don't become as pressured into being a bad boy.
I hope you can find one for yourself. Have a good day.
2006-09-15 11:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its too bad that you dont want to talk about women right now because you cant have a one sided argument. You sound sexist and your reasoning is actually not all that fact based. I say shut up until you get the truth. the fact is both sexes have changed and we always will. quit complaining.
2006-09-15 11:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by hatin_u_always 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that this stuff has always been around, it's just now that the media covers it constantly. Also that stuff is considered acceptable now. I was listening to a women talking about her husband and how he was is jail and how she wanted her baby to see him. And I was like wow you got a real winner there.
2006-09-15 11:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by amish_renegade 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men got a whole new generation if u know, and what a crap u talkin' bout. r u 50-60, r u alone ?, r u ok ?
2006-09-15 11:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by antonio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋