His way of communicate with me is yelling and cursing at me
2006-09-15 04:04:09 · 11 answers · asked by samiria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out of that relationship NOW, he is a control freak, you will never be happy! His idea of a 50/50 relationship is 90% male and 10% you! Too many nice guys around who respect women and respect the opion of their loved one. No need to put up with abuse, it will only get worse!
2006-09-15 04:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then I would get out of the relationship, yelling and cursing is a emotional abuse. As well, you deserve so much more.. you also need to remember that sometimes abuse can escalate to something more.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-15 04:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Samiria, you must have seen something in him that made you to choose him as your boyfriend. If that thing is still there, and you really love him just as before, and you're sure that he loves you too, inspite of this negative attitude of communication, please, try as much as possible to take the lead in this area. Perhaps he's coming from a background that is not as polished, refined, or cultured as yours. One interesting aspect of friendship is the blending of two people from different (and often times contrasting) backgrounds. Thanks goodness you've recognized his weak side, be a good and reliable partner to cover and polish that side for him. I s'ppose you know that everyone has his/her week sides - even including you and I. To help in covering each other's weaknesses is one thing that makes friendship interesting and long-lasting. Cheers and have a nice week-end.
2006-09-15 04:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one deserves to be treated that way. Yelling and cursing is inappropriate. Tell him the next time he yells and curses at you, you will ditch him. Say it and mean it. You deserve Bliss :)
2006-09-15 04:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
After reading all this people you have to focus on three things: First what is you like about him in the first place? Second is he worth the trouble? Third can you ignore his attitude and live normally? Answering these questions will help you decide what to do.
2006-09-15 04:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ket-koot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if that is how he talks to you, you should leave him. he has no right yelling and cursing you. that is not how someone is suppose to talk. his parents most talk to him that way. it may land up that he starts to hit you. I am a mother
2006-09-15 04:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation will only get worse.
If you are hoping things will get better - they wont!
This is an abusive relationship already. Is this the best that you think you deserve?
Abusers continue their abuse forever. You will never please him enough to make him change. He came into your relationship this way and he will enter the next one the same way. Don't stick around to add fuel to his rage. Leave now.
2006-09-15 04:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either write him a note and tell him u want to calmy talk things out if he cannot do such as that u should leave him...aggressive men only get worse if they deny their problems..no woman should be treated like that unless u are asking for it
2006-09-15 04:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by â?¥CURiOUSâ?¥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. If he acts like this now, it won't change later. He will continue treating you with disrespect. Find a guy that treats you nice.
2006-09-15 04:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him!
2006-09-15 04:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by ETHAN'S ROSE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋