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my b/f dumped me without any reason n proposed to me again and i again hooked up with him just to dump him as he did it with me.now to went to other country for higher studies n made a g/f over there.wat should i do?i miss him a lot.

2006-09-15 03:55:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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it doesnt sound like you two are meant to be together. Move on. Keep missing him but dont talk to him and some day you wont miss him anymore because you have moved on

2006-09-15 03:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0 0

In the 1st case, u shouldnt have hooked up with him to just take revenge - in other words dump him like how he dumped u. Instead of making him feel ur revenge for his past deeds, u should have made him feel ur intense love for him. Your love should have made him realize that he made a huge mistake dumping but is glad to be back with u again. This would have made him see u as a precious part of his life.
But now that unfortunately, he ended up getting a gf..on ur side, all u can do is miss him AND regret for what u have done which ur partially doing (meaning..the missing him part). Just hope that ur love will make him come back to u one day or the other. If it doesnt happen..then just digest this trauma. Afterall, life is made up of both happiness and sorrow. Plus, everything in life happens for a GOOD REASON.

Good Luck!

2006-09-15 04:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by mad_integer 3 · 0 0

I know that what I am going to say is probably not what you want to hear, but here it goes. You should have not done this to him if you still had feelings for him because you were going to end up hurt as well. It is going to be hard for you to restore the trust between the both of you for you have both hurt each other. If you still have feelings for him then I would tell you to call him or get in contact with him so how and speak to him. tell him everything that you feel, be honest. Now if you miss him as a friend or as something less then the love of your life i would tell you to try to move on make new friends and give yourself time. Hope that this helps some way.

2006-09-15 04:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by andia2amat 3 · 0 0

To be honest i dnt know what you can do. As you know what goes around will come around.Maybe not in the same way maybe worse. All i can tell you is that you should sit down and think about what has happened in your relationship(s). Then you will find your answer on what you should do.

2006-09-15 03:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The word miss sometimes resembles love. If you really still love your ex, go for it. If you want to take a chance, and try to make things right, you better have a reason to be loved. We all want something more. And it is worth fighting for...

2006-09-15 04:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kerk 2 · 0 0

I hate to say this but that was a dumb idea because you didn't make yourself seem like a better person by doing what you did. If you have any way to communicate with him just tell him that what you did and why you did it and see what happens. GOOD LUCK!!!

2006-09-15 04:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Bank$ 2 · 0 0

Not everyone we love is right for us. That is what dating and boyfriends are all about. There is no foundation for a longterm anything and he's already moved on. Just get on with your life and forget about him...obsessing just creates pain for yourself....so do something else.

2006-09-15 04:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Scully 4 · 0 0

Move on and get yourself someone else. The fact that he got himself another girl is an indication that he has moved on. No need lyeing on your back waiting for him to come back, you're just wasting your time. It is possible to love someone else so forget him.

2006-09-15 04:07:39 · answer #8 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0 0

You had your chance and you already made your choice. You will just have to regret it and live with it OR you could go to wherever he is and make his current gf look like a fool!! Good luck!!

2006-09-15 04:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by CityGirl21 4 · 0 0

You are far too immature to get married if that was your reaction to getting back together with him.

You can't do anything. He has gone on with his life. You need to go on with yours.

I miss my first car, too. It was great fun to drive, but it was destroyed and I survived it. My dad died when I was 12, I miss him too. Nothing I can do about it but move on.

2006-09-15 03:59:12 · answer #10 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0 0

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