English guys, do I scare men off?

Question

I find it diffcult to chat to men sometimes. They seem so nervous. What can I do to to put you at ease if I were to come and talk to you?
If you're an American male, don't bother answering.

Answer 1

Well I'm an English female and most nice guys just like a smile and someone with a good sense of humour and a bit of intelligence. The idiot's here will have no problem approaching you but they are the ones you want to try and avoid. I'm assuming you don't go out dressed like you are on your picture.....if you do then most guys probably think your a Lap Dancer and lets be honest...most of them are Nutcases.

Answer 2

If you are as beautiful as the picture, the nervousness comes into not wanting to do or say something to scare you off.
Just keep smiling and talking, if they have trouble talking to you try asking questions about themselves, what they do, hobbies, favourite music, stuff like that. Eventually we are put at ease and overcome our trepidation. I wish I wasn't wheelchair-bound myself as I would love to chat to you and show you that once that initial period is overcome, most of us have a wicked sense of humour.
I'm actually Anglo-Vietnamese but bought up as being totally English. I have a 360 Yahoo website you can look at. It's a shame you don't have one yourself.

Answer 3

a guy will naturally be nervous around a girl he finds attractive physically. i wish it wasnt like that!! just be down to earth with him and let him feel accepted for who he is. dont act up yourself cos he'll think youre out of his league so may not bother, and if hes cocky dont bother with him!!
just treat him like any other friend. say hello and then chat about everyday stuff (weather, how are you etc). soem guys who have less female friends sometimes find it hard just to see a female as a friend rather than as a potential girlfiend...........but if you dont befriend him, he wont get the friendship experience

Answer 4

Men always seem to go all of a quiver when they meet a beautiful woman. But just give them a nice big smile, that usually puts people at ease and shows that you're not cold or stand offish.

Answer 5

I am shy .. so you would scare the hell out of me through fear of rejection .. best bet is to come over and start talking about something non-sexual .. then if you like me .. move the conversation around .. a little contact (perhaps a touch on the arm) would give me the hint that I am not going to crash and burn and would build confidence ;)

Answer 6

just talking to people isn't bad. But looking at ur pic states how u want people to persieve u. U find it difficult to chat with men maybe coz of the signal u radiate. u stimulate not their intellect but the sexual drives. Slow down a little on wanting to talk to men and just take up another hobby and be urself, before u know it real men will want to talk to u.

Answer 7

If I were a guy then I'd run a mile from you. Your on a help website and asking stupid slutty questions, if u want attention go on www.teentoday.co.uk and type ur name there will be plenty of guys willing to w*nk for u on cam. U obviously jus crave attention.
Try the subtle approach, put some more clothes on and a little less make up.

Answer 8

have you thought there might be something not quite right with you that makes the men you meet nervous but what ever it is you wouldn't make all men nervous of perhaps your overbearing attitude it might be the other way and whatsmore what have you got against the american guys, i'm uk which i supect you are !!with a female question of that nature!

Answer 9

Maybe you act a bit desperate and needy? I mean most girls I know would never be sluttish enough to go and chat a guy up, wait for them to come to you and if they're too nervous, that's their problem!

Answer 10

Someone seems to be a little stuck on themselves! If you want only English men, get off the American website. Pretty, but no brains! Can't win them all.