I talk to this boy that likes me every day in class because I sit right next to him. But the guy I really like and that likes me(but is a chicken) always gets really jealous and gives him mean looks. The two of them are in the same club but they don't talk much, but for the past two days, the guy I really like came and sat behind the other and talked to him about their latest activity the entire class hours. Normally it wouldn't bother me too much but I am beginning to think the guy I liked talked to the other just so he wouldn't talk to me. My friend has no idea, but I started out kind of just using him to make the other jealous, but now I am starting to like him too, just not as much. But I have known the first one way longer so I think I might be able to love the 2nd too. I just don't want to hurt either but I can't choose.
2006-09-15 03:28:52 · 25 answers · asked by malohalo_89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
follow your gut,,it knows what you want
2006-09-15 03:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girly u have a Problem!!!!!!! firstly y use on to make the other jealous? that was not a nice thing to do. What u need to do is to fess up and hope that they forgive you. Then decide which one you really want to be with. You may even get the opportunity to keep the other on as a friend. Try it if it doesn't work then at least u will learn from you mistake. Good Luck.
2006-09-15 10:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by Pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to "choose" but you do need to make a choice. Who ever you do pick to be a B/F(?) then the other needs to show maturity and if they can't then forget them. However if the one was jealous of you talking to someone when you aren't together what will happen if you are together and you talk to someone? The choice is yours just remember to learn from it.
2006-09-15 10:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not really ready for either. When you can put away the games, be sensitive, true and honest with one you like, then you may be ready. Of course, maybe you just like the game now.. In that case, don't choose either, mix it up with everyone! --Have fun and feel the power. But remember, it's not just fun and games for all.
2006-09-15 10:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by motocat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agh, you're complicating your life for no reason. All that drama is not necessary at all. And you're a school kid, concentrate more on school and getting good grades than boys. Trust me you'll benefit more on school compared to boys.
2006-09-15 10:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose what? You haven't made a move and neither has either one of them. So sit back and chill until you figure out which one you like and make your move or wait for one of them to make theirs.
2006-09-15 10:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♪ TrickNice ♪♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does malohalo mean? And I'm not sure who you should choose, maybe the one you feel most comfortable with. You can't have 'em both, or you'll end up with neither....
So what does malohalo mean?
2006-09-15 10:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by Cactuar Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin
2006-09-15 10:31:46 · answer #8 · answered by ImSpoilednLoveit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to hurt either and can't choose? Then what's gonna be? Make up your mind before its too late.
2006-09-15 10:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by Shannah! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why haven't any of them made a move? what are their names, Nancy and Sally. You'll probably never date any of them because they're too scared to make it happen
2006-09-15 10:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id just pick another guy to like and just remain friends with both of them. then nobodys feelings get in the way!
2006-09-15 10:31:51 · answer #11 · answered by rocs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋