is there a chance of getting back together?
2006-09-15 03:20:01 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should start looking for another girl mate, she aint coming back!
2006-09-15 03:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by hully genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a chance - but give her the space she needs to figure out what she wants.
There is no rule on how long she may need. Be patient, but do not sit and wait for her call to come, either. Use the time to decide if she really is "the one". Go out, have fun, whatever.
2006-09-15 03:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her about a month and if she can't make up her mind by that time then talk to her and if u don't get the answer that you are looking for and even though it's hard try your best to move on. There is always a chance that you guys could get back together because maybe she might come to her senses and see what a good person you are.
2006-09-15 03:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Bank$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about a 5% chance she actually means she wants some space to consider your relationship and decide whether to carry on.... about a 40% chance that she's saying it because as far as she's concerned it;s over but doesn;t want to hit you with it so bluntly and about a 55% chance that she wants the space to go out with someone else and see if that relationship works.... sorry - as you can see the odds of reconciliation are not great....
2006-09-15 03:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by eriverpipe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question brings back a little saying that I heard long ago.
If you love something you must set it free
If it returns to you, it is yours forever
If not, it never was.
Let her have all the space she wants and if she really misses what you two had together she will be back. If she does not miss it well you are out of luck. Move on .
2006-09-15 03:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by pawolf1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't give her anything. She's the one who initiated the needing of space so your on her watch. You should take the hiatus to find what gives you joy without her and date other people because you better believe that's what she's doing. There is always a chance that you two could get back together.
2006-09-15 03:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♪ TrickNice ♪♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you give her as much time as she asks for. However, when someone asks for space, that's usually a sign that things aren't going well. Try to find out why she wants space, and force her to be upfront with you. If she does tell you she's not sure about your relationship, don't cry or beg or make her feel guilty. Otherwise, she'll be discouraged from being honest. Good luck.
2006-09-15 03:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's already your ex and she's telling you she needs space..... buddy you need to back off.
Simply tell her you're there for her whenever she wants to talk and leave it.
I think chances are slim you'll get back together (for long anyway).
It's very likely she may never call you, so I would recommnend you start your flirt game in another direction.
2006-09-15 03:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she wants ... but its up to you how long you want to wait. Needless to say as to if the two of you are going to get back together, I'm not really sure and no one here can tell you that. Just be honest and communicate.. go from there.
Good luck
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-15 03:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time when somebody says they need space its just a nice way of breaking up for good, but maybe this time she really just needs to step back and figure a few things out. If I were you I would go on about my life and not wait around, then if she ever decides to come back you wont have wasted all of your time moping around for her. Good luck!!!
2006-09-15 03:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by Day500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on why she need space and what you have done to contribute to why she needs space. to be honest, right up until a week ago, when i said that to my boyfriend, deep down i didnt want him to leave me alone, i just wanted him to know that i am not happy. so maybe its that. however, recently, things have happen for me recently, and when i told him i wanted space i ment it. so if she does really need space, give it to her. let her know you aint going no where until or if she says she doesnt want you in her life no more. dont keep asking her how much time, dont rush her, if you do, she wont realise what she will miss if you hound her day and night when she is suposed to be having some space by herself. goodluck though.
2006-09-15 03:29:03 · answer #11 · answered by london lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋