ok when I was 3 months pregnant I found out I contracted chlamidya ( i knoe its spelled wrong) but I have only been with this guy for 2 years of my life... and he swears up and down it wasn't him he thought i was me! that was cheating and he started not trusting me and it became a problem with us.. my boyfriend honestly isnt a cheating type he was living wih his parents at the time when he lived there he just went to work everyday thats all he could day he had no friends down there and it was like in the middle of nowhere.. i thought about work but all men worked there I even called the manager i talked to his parents and they both said he was on time always and couldnt understand why!! can sum1 explain to me how I could of contracted chlymidia with no one cheating on each other PLZZZ dude I investigate him all the time HE DOESNT CHEAT WEVE BEEN TOGETHER for 2 years I mean I really mean it!
2006-09-15 03:10:24 · 13 answers · asked by mattysmommy18 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
okay I found out in December and when I went and got a exam in feb of last year (before I was pregnant 10 months after I found out) and I was totally clean and I WAS WITH HIM AND DIDNT HAVE ANYTHING!!! then Like 10 months later I did.....???
2006-09-15 03:12:30 · update #1
NO I DIDNT CHEAT the last time I slept with sum1 was jan. of 2004! FOUND OUT LAST DEC OF 05 CONTRACTED IT GOT MY FIRST EXAM IN FEB OF 2005 AND DIDNT HAVE ANYTHING AND HE SWEAR UP AND DOWN ON OUR SON WHOM HE LOVES WITH HIS FREKIN LIFE ON HE WOULDNT SAY THAT IF HE DID HE WOULDNT HE WAS 19 LAST YRS OLD NOW 21
2006-09-15 03:16:37 · update #2
OK iVE BEEN TOTALLY TREATED FOR MY STD AND HE DID AS WELL HAD A CHECK UP SINCE THEN NOTHING AND THEN AGAIN NOTHING NOTHING AGAIN IVE HAD LIKE ....5 EXAMS AFTER THAT (I HAD THE BABY) HAD ALOT OF EXAMS NOTHING AFTER THAT! my last partner was a virgin
2006-09-15 03:20:05 · update #3
im 18 yrs old ***** and ive only been with 3 ppl im not a hoe DONT TALK SHYT
2006-09-15 03:20:50 · update #4
did you cheat?
2006-09-15 03:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to do some research. Its called a sexually transmitted disease for a reason.
More than half the woman who contracted chalymdia dont have any symptoms you can not get an STD from a toliet seat that is a myth.
You can catch a sexually transmitted disease (STD) from a toilet seat.
___ True ___ False ___ Who told you that?
ANSWER: False. Mary J. O'Sullivan, MD, vice chair for ob-gyn at the University of Miami, tells WebMD that the idea that you could get an STD from a toilet seat "sounds believeable," but is highly unlikely. Hard surfaces such as toilet seats are not conducive to STDs. Incidentally, there is rumor that the toilet seat myth got started by men who wanted their wives to think a public restroom, not their mates' adulterous ways, had given them an STD
2006-09-15 10:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by firemanshunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can contact it from other ways besides sex. Sex is just the number one way of getting an STD. All that needs to happen is fluid from someone who as it gets to your fluid and into your body. A toliet seat, if you rub on it or touch it with a body part that has fluid it could that way, bathing suits, even though you're not suppossed to take your underwear off when you try it on, things like that. If you swear you didn't cheat, and he swears he didn't cheat, try to think of things like that. Just don't dwell on it. If you trust him and he trusts you, live life and enjoy your son.
2006-09-15 10:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by jdecorse25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can think of (assuming what you say is true) is that one of you had it before you two hooked up.chlamydia carriers often have no symptoms.But two years? I think It would have shown up sooner then that in one of you. See if you can find out how long you have been infected. That will tell you something. You are going to have to let the facts speak for themselves.
2006-09-15 10:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive read about women contracting STD's from bathing suits that had been tried on in stores (you arent supposed to try them on but that doesnt stop some folks). Buy a new swimsuit lately?
2006-09-15 10:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by lindsay74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He or you could have contracted it before you started dating, Then it was dormant in your system and only came out when you got pregnant because you immune system weakend. Either that or he cheated.
2006-09-15 10:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you didnt cheat then he did he needs to be tested and treated and dotnhave unprotected sex with him til he does. you will just get it again. this disease is treatable and curable. get him tested. and treated.honesty is the best policy for both of you someone cheated. if it wasnt you it was him
2006-09-15 11:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well was he the first sexual partner u've had? if u had sex with someone else before him its possible that u got it from someone else before u where with him and only just found out... otherwise hun im sorry to say but he's cheated on u...
2006-09-15 10:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some std's go undeteced for a while. You could have gotten it from your last partner, or he could have gotten it from his last partner. Either way I believe it is treatable and both of you should be treated for it
2006-09-15 10:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by April B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously somebody is lying! It's not some type of airborne disease. It can only be contacted SEXUALLY. I suggest talking to a physician.
2006-09-15 10:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by Chocolate Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well someone told me u can get it from pregnancy i dont know if that was a lie but a doctor told me that, it ight have been him if u wernt with anyone else, dont let him stress u
2006-09-15 10:15:34 · answer #11 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋