i had sex with this great guy that i know but the sex was awful, we were both tense, nervous, it was just awful i don't think we were satisfy... should we try again, can we ever recover or is it over after this?
2006-09-15 02:58:22 · 21 answers · asked by PR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure try it again... and try to be relax and less tense, and communicate what you like and don't like and hopefully it will be better....
2006-09-15 03:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by sweet&crazy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time I did it with my wife it was awful. We didn't know eachothers bodies or likes and dislikes. Now everytime its great. In fact recently we laughed at how horrible we thought the other was in bed the first time. If you love this person it will work out. Anytime you are tense, nervous sex isn't going to be good. Get to know eachothers bodies, maybe a little forplay or other fun things like oral sex. Eventually both will instinctivly know what pleases your partner and than the sex will be GREAT!
2006-09-15 03:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time is akward alot of times. Don't sweat it, just have lots more sex, it will get more comfortable. Of course if after a couple weeks the sex is comfortable but still not satisfying then it may be time to move on. But you are the one who makes the most influence in your sex life by communicating what you want to your partner, make him feel comfortable and let him know what you like.
2006-09-15 03:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by M.B. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should try again. Like you said you were both nervous and tense. The second time should be better but if its not better by the third time then its time to reevaluate.
2006-09-15 03:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♪ TrickNice ♪♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would again if there is more feelings there. If it is a little bad again then finish it by you taking control. It could also be that he or you are not very experienced. I love to learn new things so good luck.
2006-09-15 03:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is possible to have bad sex once in a while. try a couple more times. body massages and lots of touching might help relax
2006-09-15 03:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course you can recover, the first time is always not so good...it gets better with time and confidence.
2006-09-15 03:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That happened to me too. I was really attracted to him but the sex was terrible and he must have thought so too because he didn't call me again. But no big loss.
2006-09-15 03:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try again. If it is bad again, It may be time to move on. Especially if he has nothing else to offer. If he has better qualities then sex about himself then you may want to stay.
2006-09-15 03:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by bre 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Naturally if there is any issue. The sex is not going to be good. However sex is sex. Why would it matter?
2006-09-15 03:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋