Me and my girlfriend were the best of lovers till yesterday and then all of a sudden out of the blue she said this morning that "i no longer want to love you, i have ambitions in my life and i want to full fill those". She stopped texting me and when contacted she said " i want to be as i was before i met you" and said that we will be friends again and will talk less and text less.
I love her a Lot and dont want to leave her for no reason.
So should i let go or should i wait for her to come back, but anyway i had said to her that no matter what she thinks i will always love her.
P.S. : Both of us are above 26 years and earning well
2006-09-15 02:57:07 · 32 answers · asked by Spliceguyz1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would let it go
2006-09-15 02:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by fungurllallthatime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your girlfriend and my ex related. That's exactly what my ex said to me. You know what I did? I up and left. We were sharing a home together. Life is too short and beautiful to live with a person that doesn't appreciate or love and honor you. Let go. No one can take what's yours. In other words if she's for your she'll be back. Best of luck my friend. You deserve so much!
2006-09-15 03:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just wait. It seems like she may have alot of things on her mind right now and needs time to just be alone. Let her go and if its for real she will come back to you. I know this is hard but it is the best thing to do.
2006-09-15 02:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by bre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like what she is looking for is a break, maybe she is going though a bit of stress. give her sometime but from the looks of it she still wants to stay in touch with you. Just remember that their will always be chemistry between the two of you the next time you see each other.
2006-09-15 03:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by busybeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be hard but let go
as for you thinking this is Sudden beleive it, it is not
women think and rethink the pulling away has been their you just never pay any attention
Advise remember how this one end so you can pay more attention to your next realtionship
2006-09-15 03:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let her go apparently she has goals in her life and wants to accomplish them with out anyone holding her back .. no strings attached ... but that doesn't mean that she doesn't still love you .. you can't just turn love on and off like a light switch
2006-09-15 03:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try letting her leave and wait for a little while for her to come back. That way you've done both, if she doesn't come back, then she just wasn't the one for you.
If she does, she would probably call it a "Test of your loyalty". And that you passed. That is my opinion. Have a good day.
2006-09-15 04:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of her and let her have her life back before she met you. Sounds as if she is wanting to remove herself slowly from your life by decreasing any means of communication.
I wouldn't hold my breath. If it is meant to be, it will happen. In the meanwhile, get out and meet new people and enjoy life.
2006-09-15 03:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is looking for something else. Not sure what though. I would give her some space and not call her or text her anymore. Let her come to you. If she doesn't call you in a week forget about her.
2006-09-15 03:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm, seems a little out the blue. You sure there werent any underlying factors? She owes you an explanation thats for sure. But to be honest mate, if you have a lass that would do that to you, your better looking for someone else.
Sorry if its not what you want to hear.
2006-09-15 02:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by Chris O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter how old you are or how much you earn?
She doesn't wanna be with you and it's obvious when she says "I have ambitions in my life" that you're not part of her future.
Move on and find someone who's future includes you
2006-09-15 02:59:25 · answer #11 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋