We switched babysitters about a month before my daughter started school. And my son who is 3, was / is fine when she is there. However, since she is gone, he keeps saying how he misses her and cries almost to a point of hysteria when I leave him in the mornings. Any suggestions on what to do? How long will this go on?
2006-09-15 02:42:31 · 6 answers · asked by xxkcfanxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
until he realizes that its just the way things are ... he isn't being abandoned, ask the babysitter to give him something to keep him busy
2006-09-15 02:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about the new babysitter? If your daughter liked her and your son did okay when his sister was their then don't worry. It may take a couple of weeks, but your child will do better. I think it is harder for the parent to walk away hearing their child cry. Just give it a little time. Your child will adjust.
2006-09-15 03:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by markkaren96 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he needs to get used to being at the babysitters house without his sister, if he is attached to her especially at 3 he is just used to being there with his sister. Just give it some time, I can't say how long that will last but I am sure everything will be fine!!
2006-09-15 02:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by ~Ms Eli~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have right this is a effectual message that validates what I unquestionably have continually theorized: mom and dad exert a effectual impact with their little ones, exceedingly interior the adolescence, which your son is in appropriate now. mom and dad do not even ought to verbalize something, little ones can %. up attitudinal and non verbal cues. My advice is to speak this over mutually with your husband. He should be a factor of the answer while you're to make any headway in any respect in changing your son's skewed theory, no attributable to his dad, who he seems to take after. enable your husband understand which you do not want your son to boost up questioning that is okay to hate persons fro no obvious reason. you additionally can ALL talk with a counselor concerning this, exceedingly in case you sense which you would be outnumbered (they against you = 2 vs. a million), and take a examine out to get one that is gentle to subject concerns of racism, hate or homophobia. it would help if all of you have been latest so as that any subject concerns may be threshed out, and you're all component to the therapeutic technique. I want you the terrific on your plans, solid success!
2016-10-15 00:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by mulry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will probably pass, We had the same problem when my kid was about 3 and her brother went to school. It really took several weeks for her to get over this. I would imagine the same thing for you. It was very hard to leave her but I knew I had to.
2006-09-15 04:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Daycare Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quite possibly the sitter is not keeping the child occupied enough.
2006-09-15 02:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋