Hey i really feel for u. Living away from home can be very depressing. But in all this, there is one thing u need to remember: U R THERE FOR A PURPOSE! Try joining some social gatherings, sport, health clubs or any that r of interest to you.
You may decide to move back home but know that things have changed there too and u will have to start life afresh. Hang in there my dear. U went for better prospects, but they dont come easy. Most importantly join a church if u belive in Jesus. u will soon have a stori to tell and i will surely like to hear it: kabitoo@yahoo.com
2006-09-15 02:32:37
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answered by Kaby_72 2
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If you are totally miserable and can go home, then I would say go for it. If you have already done one year, you may be able to stand it another year, though. Being depressed and unhappy for a year of your life does not sound worth it to me.
As yourself a few questions. If you go home early, will you feel as if you have had the whole England experience? Would you like to stay and try to make a few friends and see if you are happier? On the other hand, if your heart is at home, you may never be happy away. What are the consequences of not fulfilling your contract? Is it worth it for another year? If your relationship with your boyfriend is not strong enough to stand the separation, is it really the relationship for you?
2006-09-15 03:06:54
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answered by Patti C 7
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If I lived in Jamaica i doubt i would leave it for england, weather speaking. I would stay for the entire contract. Its only another year, if you just put your head into your work you will forget being depressed. Besides, if your boyfriend isn't willing to cooperate with your dream of going to england he probably wont cooperate with anything you want to do in your life.
2006-09-15 02:22:38
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answered by KCH 3
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True, our weather is crap i am depressed because i'm from england and white because we have no sun. at leaset you have the choice to go back home were stuck here like you. You must have been mad to move from Jamaica to here. did you not check the weather out proir?
Good luck girl and don't get depressed, the weather may be bad but at least you are safe, and have your health that's a bonus surely.
2006-09-15 02:28:54
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answered by shelz042000 3
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Do what you sense is impressive. 40,000$ is extremely some funds and also you would possibly want to do quite some different issues with them. for instance in case you retain that it would want to nicely be a sturdy initiate for a down fee on a house, or purchase a sparkling automobile and so on. And in the experience that your courting fairly might want to be that effected by employing a awful 40 5 minutes, it probable received't very last perpetually besides. 40 5 minutes isn't something.
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answered by ? 3
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life has its own ups and downs... many a times what we want never turn up has we want it but still we all move on in life expecting that all ll be soon clear as we want it to be.Its always good to stay there right now.. and try to mingle more with the people out there.who knows what all is waiting back at home...see how long u can hold ... and then nothing seems going right ..... u have an option .
2006-09-15 02:28:17
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answered by krakra 1
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if u are staying coz if u leave u will feel that u failed..dont stay.becouse u r depressed and sucsses is not measured only with work.u r also compramizing ur relation with ur boyfriend.
and its not like what someone answered u..that if is not cooperating it means he is a bad person but long distance relations are not easy.
think about ur advantages and disadvatages of staying there.seriously take paper and pen and make 2 coloums and write adv and disadv.and see what ur gaining and what ur loosing and decide
good luck
2006-09-15 03:10:13
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answered by selina 3
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first you should weigh the pros against the cons of leaving your work there. if you think that you're not really meant to be in that place, not because of your bf, not because of your family, but you really found it in your heart that you don't belong there then go and make the right move. coz living in a place, working in an office where your heart and mind doesn't exist , no good output will come out of it.
2006-09-15 02:30:09
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answered by amanda 2
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home is the end of the world. go back as early as possible
2006-09-15 02:21:14
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answered by Anonymous
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