This has happened to me 4 or 5 times. I'm at a bar and some girl is walking with attitude, and walks right by me and bumps her shoulder into me. So last time it happened I told the girl to watch where she was walking ( I can't stand being at a bar and being touched, bumped or people putting their hand on me to let me know they're coming through, wether it's a guy or girl doing it). Anyway a friend told me I shouldn't have scolded her because she just wanted me to notice her. I disagreed though I just thought she wanted everyone to know she was pissed about something. because Yeah I might notice if you try to spear me, but I'm going to think you're a *****. Who's right girls, him or me?
2006-09-15 02:18:02 · 18 answers · asked by joe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u're right, look it takes much mucles movement to pass her words, but it's way eaiser to slap a hoe.
2006-09-15 02:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
( I can't stand being at a bar and being touched, bumped or people putting their hand on me to let me know they're coming through, wether it's a guy or girl doing it)
- this is your issue. You're partially right - some girls do this, especially to guys who are bigger then them. Its like they think because they're so small and weak, and you're so big, they can just manhandle you and it'll be cute. But when you tell us that you have such a big issue with being touched, it makes me suspect that I can't trust your judgement on whether her contact was rude, or acceptable. Your friend is a 'neutral' witness who thought the girl was in fact wanting to flirt, not being a *****. Given that you've got hang ups, and he's neutral, I'd guess he was probably right.
2006-09-15 02:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u sound like a snot. not to sound mean but u do. u dont want ppl touching u at a bar? come on most in there are losers and cant walk cause they are drunk. if u feel so strongly about this then go to a sports bar that serves food and drinks then u dont worry about losers at the bars touching u. ( as u can tell im not into the bar thing myself..lol) i stay my tail out of them.
2006-09-15 02:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate that too, when I'm out and a-h0les bump into me...it's really annoying! Who knows, it could have been by accident though, not because she had so-called "attitude". You and your friend are both right. You went with your split second instincts and chose to handle it your way, and he would have had his own way of handling the situation. Leave it at that.
2006-09-15 05:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would have to say your right. You shouldn't have to put up with bs like that from anyone. Woman are man. Your a person to and I'm sure she wouldn't like it if you did the same to her. So I'd do just what u did. Say hey watch where ur going. b/c if she wonted u to notice her why would she be walking around like she has a attuide....
2006-09-15 02:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kimberly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right dude. I hate women that walk around with their attitude all the time. If she wanted you to notice her, she could've went about it differently.
I hate when people bump into me too, now if she gently touched your shoulder and said excuse me it would've been different.
2006-09-15 02:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have a very small personal space and do not like that space violated. Going to a bar is about one of the worst places you could go.
If the girl doesn't say "Excuse me", then you should look directly at her and say "Excuse you". She is being rude, whether she wants you to notice her or not.
2006-09-15 02:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like YOU are the one with an attitude. Maybe you should do your drinking at home. You don't sound like a very sociable person to be spending so much time in a social setting.
2006-09-15 02:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by north79004487 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally I'm like you I don't know if that's bad or good but anyways. I will check a girl real quick if she thinks she's almighty. If I miss out then I do but if you like me just be like I'm sorry i was just trying to get your attention. I would never ever try to knock somebody over just to be like I like you. It's like pull a girls hair to get attention. You handled your self right..
2006-09-15 02:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by de4life34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just chill dude she might hav come 2 know dat u sound very gud dats y she is keepin on bumpin in u.It id clear dat she wants u 2 b her BF as she may hav broken with her's.No matter wat u jst stick 2 ur guns n keep a distance between u n her she seems 2 b very clever.B careful.
2006-09-15 02:24:24 · answer #10 · answered by jk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl was so hard up for attention that she had to bump into you, then she's not worth the attention. You were right not him!
2006-09-15 02:20:38 · answer #11 · answered by angielynn219 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋