i want to be with my fiance okay he is really good to me but he has done something really silly so i chose to be with someone else who is good in bed not forever, why is it okay when guys do these things but its not okay for us, if i was a guy inthis situation would youguys still have the same reaction? i dont think so help me dont JUDGE me
2006-09-15 00:54:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not ok for anyone to cheat male or female and yes my reaction is very much the same for both sexes. I agree no one should judge you and honestly I'm not because my opinion would go with whoever asked this question. If you love someone enough to marry them then isn't the love strong enough to work things out instead of adding more fuel to the fire?
2006-09-15 01:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Gulp. I am not a guy, but I have lived a long time and have seen many things,...what gave you the idea it is ok for a guy to do such a thing???? It is not. The guys who have the character do this sort of thing, are the guys who end up in divorce court and end up paying for it through the nose.
I am not judging you, but I don't think you should marry your fiancee until you solve your mutual issues.
Good luck.
2006-09-15 08:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Matilda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your fiance is just as unfaithful as you then I believe you are not meant for each other. Even if your fiance was unfaithful you its not an excuse to do the same...... I suspect you both are not serious enough to marry.
In marriage, if you choose to be with someone else it is the END! Whatever the excuse.
2006-09-15 08:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by UN1C0RN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready...he is not ready either...
enjoy playing...just becareful...the game you're playing has serious side effects... kids.... STD's...
Whe you find yourself and you know all your core needs and how you want to feed them, settle down then.
if you need some help getting there...I'm here to help
2006-09-15 08:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... you blew off your future husband ! You really need to cancel any future plans with him and start anew !
2006-09-19 05:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yee, see ya point..
Ya gotta do what ya gotta do..
2006-09-15 07:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by DaAussie@Australia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this country only this is wrong
2006-09-15 07:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by navin g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? you did what?
2006-09-15 08:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i.m. me ill tell you............ok?
2006-09-15 07:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by BIG DICK 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋