if your significant other had a one night stand would you wish to know or not?
i would rather not know..
2006-09-15 00:42:43 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tough one, I think not, not a 1 night stand, but an affair yes definately.
2006-09-15 00:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you don't want to be with a virgin then don't ask questions!
I have made many mistakes with the most useless waists of space and I would hope that I can leave this history behind me.
Making a mistake with a lover isn't like a murder where you go to jail and are punished for the rest of your life!!! Everyone makes mistakes with people and anyone who says they don't is a liar or too young to be challenged.
2006-09-15 07:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by UN1C0RN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had a one night stand then wouldnt that tell you he has had a few,I would want to know because I dont think Id wanna sleep with him if he is sleeping around?
2006-09-15 07:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would rather know. No matter how much it would hurt me. What if they didn't use protection? I wouldn't want him to bring anything back to me. And besides if I was enough for him he wouldn't do it. If he did it there must be some kind of problem, and we shouldn't be together.
2006-09-15 07:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know, I would tell myself that knowing will hurt me, but if i dont find out, I'd secretly hate him especially if I suspect him of having a one night stand. I feel that it is necessary for couples to be faithful to eachother and the moment that is broken, it needs to be talked out before doubt, hate, and dislike pollute their minds.
2006-09-18 08:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by sherman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i think honesty is the most important thing in a relationship i would rather hear it from my significant other then find out through someone else.
2006-09-15 07:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was just a one time, drunk-in-a-bar & will never happen again type thing, I would not want to know.
However, if it was a one night stand every Saturday night with a different girl, you bet I'd want to know!
2006-09-15 07:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by badseamstress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer to know the truth to begin with rather then knowing about it in some unpleasant manner when i am not prepared for it.
2006-09-15 07:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how far in the relationship you are if you are only friends and just sleeping with each other no but if it is more than that yes and get rid of them if you realy love the person than you can work around it if it only happend once
2006-09-15 07:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by meandragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did this happen while the two of you were together?
If YES, and of course. Because that is terms for a break up.
If NO, the past is the past. What does it matter?
2006-09-15 07:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋