i got engaged last weekend to the guy of my dreams and im not sure if i did the right thing? he has done things lately that are making me question his motives and actions,also i am still seeing this cute guy that i just cant seem to get enough , the sex with him is wonderful he keeps me COMING back for more and my fiance (per say) is not that good in bed, maybe lack of experience r something but i went back to my cute guy spent the night with him and i woke with not a guilty bone in my body, am i insane or just wasting my time with my so called"fiance" should i just end it with him , come on guys help me
2006-09-15 00:34:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-15 00:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by outback 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My philosophy is that if you cheated on him once and you're not even married you'll do it again .Be honest with him,admit your shortcoming break off the engagement and let him get on with his life and you with yours.He might hurt at first but time heals all wounds and in the long run I'm sure he'll look back and realize it was all for the best. Sounds to me like you are young and have some growing up to do and a lot of issues to deal with. I suggest you obtain some counseling before you develope a reputation that you'll carry with you for the rest of your life,If you haven't already... Good Luck !
2006-09-15 08:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by javajoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get engaged? Do you picture yourself with your so-called fiance when you are old? Did you just accept his proposal for the status and the ring? Is he really the guy of your dreams, or is he the doctor/lawyer/engineer mommy & daddy want you to end up with?
If you are engaged and still sleeping with someone else, you are obviously not that committed to the relationship you have with your fiance. I think you should break up with the guy you are engaged to before you truly hurt him. Don't prolong his agony and go find someone you are more compatable with.
2006-09-15 07:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by badseamstress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer is very obvious - you made a mistak saying yes!
break off the engagement and get together with the cute guy whom you love spending time with. Life is about being happy, so do what makes you happiest!
2006-09-15 07:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by masteroflisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm what are you thinking? of course break up with your fiancee if you are just going to cheat on him that is not fair to him no matter how cute the other guy is. i definitely think you should not get married and you should probably start being a little more careful when sleeping around. you say you question his motives and actions, i think it should be the other way around, what are your motives and objections and why can't you stay faithful to a man that obviously loves you, he wouldn't have asked you to marry him if he didn't. i don't think you deserve either guy, you are just dragging them around by their toes and playing games with both of them, how old are you? learn to be a one man women and you may find you are happier.
2006-09-15 07:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seeing someone else, it is pretty sad of you to get engaged to someone else.
What you need to do is quit playing games and grow up. I hope they both find out and dump your butt and you can go through life for awhile hurt and lonely so you know what it feels like.
It is no wonder that guys think so little of some females.
2006-09-15 07:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say end it cause you are already cheating on him and all that matters to you in a relationship is just the sex. So go be with the other guy and remember that the grass is never greener on the other side.
2006-09-15 07:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break off the relationship with the one who wants to marry you, you have shown you are not ready for a commitment to some one, your young and may need to experience life a little longer.
you are deciding thing base on sex, not by love. Love is pure, faith, honesty, trustworthy and commitment. When you have these qualities then consider marring some one.
2006-09-15 07:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by soulstore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the guy you like to have sex with. Don't think you're insane, just think you're not ready to settle down yet.
2006-09-15 07:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by Alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're engaged and already sleeping with someone else, yes, you should break up with your fiance. Simple answer
2006-09-15 07:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by woodersondylan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your fiance...nobody gave you the right to ruin someone else's life or break someone's heart !!!
2006-09-15 07:43:52 · answer #11 · answered by Robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋