2006-09-15 00:31:25 · 22 answers · asked by REBEKAH O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
YES! Being a mom is the hardest job out there and you dont need a degree for that. When i was 14-15 i was like most of these girls out there, talking about i want a baby, what was i thinking most of them dont know whats in store for them. I am 21 and i have a 2 1/2 year old and i am 16 weeks pregnant, i am so scared i wont know what to do with 2 babies its allready hard going to the store with one now screaming i told my mom yestersday, what am i gonna do when this other baby gets here, she said youll make it, i am scared to death of child birth again, i didnt have a bad birth with my son its just its alot of pain, i know what ur thinking ya i should of thought about that before i got pregnant again but right like most young girls have sex and dont even think they can get pregnant.....so the most of u teen girls that wants baby....please wait as long as u can!!!!!!!! no rush
Anyone can be a mom but its takes a real mother to take care of something so small....good luck with motherhood
2006-09-15 00:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is stressful. Think about it, you are wholly responsible for this little creature from the time it was put in your arms when it is born. If you do not feed it, keep it clean, and love it, it will die. Then as it gets older, you have to:
teach right from wrong,
how to communicate
how to cooperate with others
look after all needs
nurse when ill
play
be respectful
Even when they grow into adults, you STILL worry, you STILL give advise, you STILL try and help out.
It never ever stops. Take it from me, I have two sons (27 and 22)
So I should think that motherhood is rather stressful.... YES
2006-09-15 00:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by London Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? It's the most stressful thing on earth! But also the most wonderful. I have a 16 year old daughter, a 10 year old daughter, a 9 year old son, a 7 year old son, and an almost 2 year old daughter. There are days when I could just pull their little heads off, but mostly, I enjoy watching them grow & learn. Discovering their little personalities is the biggest challenge of all... and meshing those personalities with the other ones in the house. So yeah, it's stressful being a mom, but its a "good" stressful.
2006-09-15 00:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by mamafence 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the truth is motherhood is not the easiest thing on earth. Mothers have taken very challenging steps to get us where we are. I respect all women for that. yes, motherhood is stressful but the joy of it is when you see the kind of children you bring up. am a kenyan and there is a traditional saying here that states "giving birth aint work, mothering the kids and parenthood is the big challenge".
2006-09-15 00:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by theKenyan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I love being a mom .. it has been the most amazing experience I have ever had. Needless to say after I loss a child I have learned there are so many less things to stress over and really treasure the little moments. Tomorrow isn't guaranteed
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-15 00:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Motherhood is stressful, but it is, without a doubt, the most rewarding job in the world. My daughter can push me to my limits sometimes, but she brings a smile to my face and a joy to my heart that is priceless.
2006-09-15 01:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by ncmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think motherhood is the definition of stressful. And frankly it doesn't get any easier as your children get older. But I wouldn't trade a second with any of mine. They are my life and light.
2006-09-15 00:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol motherhood is stressful at times, but its the biggest blessing and the most important job a person can ever have.... and any mother that says that they dont find it stressful atleast at times.. is either lying, or has a nanny lol..
2006-09-15 01:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. But it it would be far far far far worse without her.
Doing a good job at anything is going to involve some element of stress.
In fairness, I will point out that being a kid looks stressful too.
2006-09-15 01:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes,yes,yes,YES!!!!
On my worst days i could happily leave for work and never go home!
But the i'd worry about who'd make tea, clean up, wash clothes, do the weekly shop, make them get a bath, feed the turtles, change the beds, hoover, do the ironing and all the other shitty household chores...........
.....and then i go home, get a big hug and a kiss and i feel ggrrrreeeaattttt!!!!!
2006-09-15 01:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by EMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋