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2006-09-15 00:28:49 · 26 answers · asked by shosho 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
move out
2006-09-15 00:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by yes darling 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Try to respect her opinion and ask her to do the same for you you guys do not HAVE to agree, however she IS older and has more experience with most things so a-lot of the time she may actually be right. You still need to question, to develop what your views are, and what you believe in though...so it's natural that will be hard for any parent when you question them, since they used to be able to just get away with "because I said so". When you get really frustrated with her, just remember that everything that she does and says, she does because she loves you and she "believes" it is the right thing to do. She is NOT trying to make your life miserable, and and really does just want what's best for you or she wouldn't even bother to argue with you at all. It's a tough time you are going thru, but it will pass, trust me. Tell you love her & thank her for trying so hard! This will mend so much of the tension & show her that no matter how much disagree, you appreciate her effort!
2006-09-15 07:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by MonsterMash 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Both of you should respect the opinion of each other, but remember you're in your mom's house and she 's the one who makes the rules and you have to play all a long until you are grown enough, with studies and a good job to get your own house, so can be the rules maker.
P.S.
If I tell you "You're right you should do what ever you want and your mom has to respect your opinion" would you give a thumbs up? So, don't do it because I sustain what I said before, and if wasn't you, for who ever did he/she showed a very low maturity level.
2006-09-15 07:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why do you imagine that you have to agree?
When it actually happens you will freak and say " Ah! No! I am turning into my mum!!!"
What you have to do is learn to respect each other's opinions. I used to say to my kids. "Listen I was young once and I had to listen to my mother.Now it is my turn. You will get yours when you have kids of your own!"
It took the heat out of things and then we could sit down and agree to differ. I didn't always win of course. still don't come to that, but we laughed (laugh) a lot in my household.
2006-09-15 07:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by Christine H 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Be mature, she has experience, check out the situations from her point of view even if she doesn't. The thing is she has seen more in the world than you....listen to her, she has given birth to you & always wants the best for you. Respect her & understand why is it that she may be disagreeingt with you. Talk openly & sort it out. Give time to each other too.
2006-09-15 07:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by Robin 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
i've been through this a couple of years ago i can certify u that she will never change... she is like this and she will always be, simply try to put urself in her shoes, try to think in her way, it will be better for both of u just be cool with her don't u ever try to convince her she won't agree but the best thing to do is to make her feel that she has the last word and do what ever u want :)
2006-09-15 07:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by general_kenzo 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Both voice your opinions in a mature healthy adult manner .. needless to say its okay to not always agree with one another. But if a decision has to be made, try to find a compromise. Unless your under 18 and living under her house.. needless to say you have to do whatever she wants.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-15 07:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Common problem......It depends on what you are not agreeing on. Try really hard not to argue. In an adult like manner, tell her you would like to talk about (what ever it is). Listen to her reasons, and tell her your reasons...Open up the line of communication....it works! God Bless.
2006-09-15 07:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by Rea 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like the typical pain between mothers and daughters. It is agravating. Just try to savor the good times. I have a horrible time with my mother and she did hers. It is very painful and it is a common problem.
2006-09-15 07:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Agree what parents told you. Listen to parents and Respect your parents.
2006-09-15 07:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by Troy 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well this ia a very difficult question. you need to talk to your mom about it. with out yelling and loseing control on your attitude. try to understand your mom and try to get your mom to understand. if that doesn't work try to write a letter. she is your mmomther you love her and she loves you 2. you may not like each other but you will always love each other. just try to talk it out. maybe really mature about things. don't just put your feelings aside let her know peace out and good luck
2006-09-15 07:35:01 · answer #11 · answered by andersonvolt93 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋