we are not staying togetherandwe belong to the same pentecostal church.Recently she has choosen the church as our meeting point instead of the restaurant that we first started.In the light of the above question, has she fallen; how do I handle this?
2006-09-15 00:20:27 · 9 answers · asked by robertfire04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you were moving things along too fast for her beliefs. I am right or wrong in thinking that Pentecostal equates with fairly fundamentalist? Maybe she simple doesn't like the food there or feels you shouldn't be wasting your money.
Don't go testing her. it is not good for either of you emotionally.
You can read the signs in her behaviour and body language. Listen to what your mind rather than your hormones is telling you and then if you are still in doubt, ask her.
2006-09-15 00:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Christine H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are using too many outside influences to guide you through the very experience you should go through yourself. Not everything is planned in advance or predestined or guaranteed!!!!! Surely at some point you could "TAKE A CHANCE!!!". If everything were planned or predicted the world would be an incredibly boring place. Some things are certain....like Tax, Death and HEARTBREAK!!! There isn't any guide to the matters of the heart and you have to take a chance with NO guides. This is your lot in life as a human....Suck it up!
2006-09-15 07:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by UN1C0RN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she has already chosen her way of life. There is no test for love if there was then we all could find the perfect partner in life. You need to just back off allow her some space and time then see what happens, but it really sounds like she has chosen the church over you. Good luck!
2006-09-15 07:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by call2fly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not test someone to see if they love you. If she prefers to meet you at church it could very well mean she's decided not to be invloved with you anymore other than friendship.
2006-09-15 07:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont test someone in a relationship - you enjoy their company and learn how to trust and accept each other.
Youre starting out with this the wrong way .
2006-09-15 07:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow the instruction given by her.
Live the life yaar. dont analyse.
2006-09-15 07:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Zeeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop testing! Just be with her and see where this leads. This isn't an exam!
2006-09-15 07:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by Judy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, Robert. Good question. I say hurl. If you blow chunks and she comes back, she's yours. If you spew and she bolts, then it was never meant to be.
2006-09-15 07:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by og1kinoge 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give respect her emotions, and wait , if she love u then she will come to ur arms defenatly.
2006-09-15 07:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by ricky s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋