AHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!! My bf likes my bff!!!! HELP!!!! I only just remembered this and shes my bestfriend!!!! Should i turn on her and become the bit
Kelse
2006-09-14 23:30:21 · 23 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have this upon yourself, dear.
First of all, do not go round grabbing the first one you like and call him your b/f. All of you are too young to know what is love and what's commitment to each other.
Therefore, you do not give each other time to get to know whether you are compatible first, before becoming a couple.
Second, you only commit to a b/g relationship after you have made many friends and get to understand your partner very well before any commitment.
Third, you don't behave like a b**** just because the "b/f" is eyeing someone else! Obviously you don't know and understand him well at all!
So just behave as if they are still your friends and be sincere with them. Go on with your life and make many more new friends and enjoy your life.
2006-09-14 23:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok if the signal is one sided. but if both of them are responding then there is little u can do. If ur bf likes her too then how the hell is he going to maintain 2 at a time, more when both r best friends. Don't worry he is not the right person for u get moving.
2006-09-15 06:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you i'd tell her to step off and ask him to be honest and tell you if he is interested in her. If he is, then he's not worth the time nor the effort. It sounds to me that you are heading down the road to disappointment and heartache. If she's writing love letters behind your back to him then she's not a true friend now is she? I'd drop her as a friend for sure. Best of luck to you and I hope this answer has provided you with some insight to your problem.
2006-09-15 06:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by zekemilli4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask frankly to both of them about the hings going on between them..
if ur best frnd n bf both are involved then both of them r not worthy to have u as a frnd or gf...
just try make things clear by asking them on face rather then assuming things with ur mind..
tak car
2006-09-15 06:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by Fraueline 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite her into the bedroom. That would be the easiest way to get around this. If that's not an option, and he likes her too, then you need to let her alone. Friends are forever, boyfriends aren't!
I meant him, ket him alone.
2006-09-15 06:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first ask your bf(he) that "what he would like to do, if the situation arise to choose one of boath of you. If your bf answer to choose you, you stop your best friend (her) writing love letter else let her go ahead
2006-09-15 06:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by pratap n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh SNAP... Lol the white outfit must've worn off... maybe its a good thing that mayb jus mayb one of his frends might have liked u hahahahahahahaha...
2006-09-15 06:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by CoNsTaNt_FaNaTiC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your friends likes your boyfriend, and he likes her, they aren't really your friends, are they? You have to be careful of people like that.
If she does that to you, she is not worthy to be called your boyfriend. I don't even know why you hang out with her.
Same with the boyfriend...
2006-09-15 06:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by Helper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it possible that your boyfriend can even see aother woman after you wore the bewitching white outfit? Leave 'em both alone.
2006-09-15 06:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do you mean she only just remembered this? so he likes her and she is writing him love letters is that right? if so lose both of them, your friends shouldn't do that to you and he aint worth crap if he's in to her!
2006-09-15 06:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋