My fiance is in Germany with the Army at the moment and we don't know when he is going to be coming back to England permenantly. I have 5 months of my college left and I don't know whether to move to Germany and leave my family and friends to be with him after college or to stay here and wait. Either way I will stay with him I just want to be close to him...
2006-09-14 23:18:05 · 13 answers · asked by brumbeep 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After you've completed college, move to Germany to be with him.
2006-09-14 23:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can decide this really - if you move will yousee him often or is there a chance he'll be based within an army camp or something?
Moving away from everything you know is a huge step - are you comfortable with going to a country where you will know only your boyfriend? Are you potentially missing out on landing yourself a good job on finishing college?
Is it practical to stay where you are and visit him for a few weekends?
You need to have a big think about this - discuss it with your fiance and decide what ye both think is the best.
2006-09-15 06:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right!! I've just moved to Germany with my husband, we got married last month, and we are expecting our first child its scary and daunting yes but i wouldn't change things for the world, If he loves you he will accept whatever decision you make. i still stay in touch with friends and family and i speak to my mum and dad almost every night on messenger, even if its just a quick hello how was work and we have web cam and microphones, (so mum can keep an eye on my ever growing bump) either way think about your future and what YOU want to do with your life ! i went nearly 2 years with only seeing my husband (then fiance) once every few months but again we had the internet and made do with that! good luck xx
2006-09-15 06:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sam D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your fiance option?
If he is serious,he wont you to finish you college and than you can see if you find a job in Germany,not easy at this time...but how ever there is all ways a way back ...
2006-09-17 13:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by ernstlamech 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into things, at least try to finish your college course, remember if you choose to go and live there he is going to be working alot of the time and you will be stuck on your own, without family and friends it can be quite lonely. Why don't you try to go for a holiday and see how things are, it will give you an idea of what life would be like over there.
2006-09-15 06:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is with the US Military, he can't live off Base being Single unless he is high in Rank. But, more importantly, get your Education..! Also, there is the good chance he will be Deployed, and where would that leave you? In a strange Country alone..
I would think long about this decision.
2006-09-15 06:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope because if your not married to him he won't have any money to keep you happy. You won't have any medical coverage, the German economy is in a slump currently so you won't get a job. There is hiring preferances for married soldiers wives, which you won't be one. The negatives far outway the positives. I know this doesnt happen very often nowadays,, but why don't you do the old fashioned thing, and.........maybe get married, ya know like people used to do a long time ago, ancient times, know what I mean?
2006-09-15 06:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Finish your time at college and then move to Germany wot have u got to lose?
2006-09-15 06:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by Hazel t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide whether to go. Why don't you go over for a trial period to see if you can live there away from everything you know. That way you can come back and wait for him at home if you don't like it.
2006-09-15 06:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man is having the last freedom in the redlight districts he will ever have(if your lucky) tell him you know ,that you love him and to wear protection. Do that and you'll be the only girl he really cares about.
2006-09-15 06:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by swami242 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋