what have you learned about the opposite sex?
2006-09-14 22:30:34 · 22 answers · asked by bunbury 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, not at all. Sometimes you need to be with someone you don't want to realize what it is you do want. In everything in life, we can learn and move on or become a jerk bastard. Don't punish others for something someone else did.
2006-09-15 15:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by itsa_me23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a guy who I was crazy about but he treated me really badly and kept cheating on me. He then left me and started seeing a so--called best friend. I was single for about a year and a half before I started seeing anyone else. I then got together with a wonderful guy and everything was perfect. He even proposed to me. Then I found out he was slepping with someone else the whole time we were together! At first I was very bitter and slagged off all men etc. But now I realise that it's my CHOICE of men that's the problem! Rather than being bitter I decided I needed to change my outlook and make better decisions. Although there will always be some little insecurity at the back of my mind, I'm not going to let it effect things because I know that there is someone out there for everyone! xx
2006-09-15 06:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never had a truly bad relationship - stayed friends with all ex's, and to this day get calls on my brithday from everyone. i think if you care about them as a friend, it avoids bitterness. one thing, each time i'm told why/criticized i feel bad about myself, and that there is something wrong with me. this totally unhealthy, because the only reason is that it just wasn't right, and they are not without fault either. as for the opposite sex - within a few dates you know, and the things that you pick up on early end up being real, so listen to that early and don't keep on going. once a guy makes up his mind, he acts. so if you don't think he's doing things right, it's because he's not into you, so don't make excuses. girls can be convinced to love someone, guys can't and just have to feel it. guys are visual (told by a guy friend).
2006-09-15 05:46:58 · answer #3 · answered by Depressed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so many hate full things to say . but this is one thing i have learned and that is when it comes to the opposite sex u need to now how to handle the whole thing and since there is no manual you have to read there body even though we all get hurt we can still be free of all negative energy if we so choose to as better as we want to be we still can move one to a higher plane of good we find something to listen to or watch we can call some one or even love again with the same energy but as a whole we must move on and not Let it all get us down
2006-09-15 05:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by mewildo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My relationship made me very bitter, hard to trust anyone!! I'm so snappy also! I learned that no matter how often you cook, clean, be a wonderful mother, dress up in sexy clothes etc you cant please a man!! Or keep him interested in you only...and im only 18!
2006-09-15 05:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. You have to take each person individually, although I am sure people subconsciously adapt to a certain degree after they have ended the bad relationship.
2006-09-15 05:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tanya B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard not to be bitter when you have been done wrong, but it can be toxic to all your future relationships to harbor negativity. it is always best to look forward towards the future than behind you in regret.
2006-09-15 06:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by nonners1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really thr relationship might have been bad but i always look for the best in things or atleast try to do that
2006-09-15 05:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by shasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it had made me disappointed and never trust that I will have a good relationship one day.
2006-09-15 05:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by bestwomanberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it taught me how I want to be treated, respected, appericated and loved. It showed me what kind of man to look for.
What does not kill you makes you stronger.
2006-09-15 05:33:11 · answer #10 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋