I've been with my boyfriend for almost seven years,and still waiting for a sure slap in the face sign that he's the "one". I love him,but some times I don't know if i'm wasting our time .?.? Please HELP?????
2006-09-14 22:24:11 · 8 answers · asked by Chicky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You been with him for seven years. Ask yourself, "am I truly happy?". The little irritating things that he does, can you stand it for as long as you shall live? You've been with him for seven years, I'm sure you can. But just be true to yourself and if you feel itsy bitsy unhappy somehow, try and change it but don't just live him just like that or you might end up making the biggest mistake of your life and it might be too late, and remember good men are hard to find.
2006-09-15 03:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find that after seven or ten years together, you get complacient. You must constantly work on any relationship. Don't ruin your life and break up because you're getting the "7-year itch" or are looking for something better. Nobody really knows if they have found "the one." If you love eachother, isn't that enough? Not enough people stick with their relationships these days. I've been married 24 years and I'm glad that I've stuck around. I'm looking forward to many, many more years with him.
2006-09-14 22:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Daphne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel he is worth it. Does he treat you, respect you, appreciate you, make you feel desired, love you the way you want to feel.
If your putting all the work into the relationship and he is not responding that could be a sign. If you feel that your wasting your time and your questioning if you love him....possibly he is not the one.
Sit down and talk, say how you want to be loved in a relationship and what your goals are in a relationship.
2006-09-14 22:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look considering which you're actually not seeking to remarry, why provide up your life kind which you're presently enjoying. stay the direction enable him proceed his life kind and you progression on. in case you report for divorce you will lose what you deserve coverage, scientific coverage and pension rights. Please for your self and your destiny you could not stay withouth scientific and life coverage. the advantages are actually not even on your want. you do not actually have a clue on how confusing your life would be with out those form of reward plus a very good homestead that he's paying the non-public loan. stay the direction and circulate on and don't report for a divorce. merely does not even make experience. does not even comes on the threshold of including up.
2016-10-15 00:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooo, let me tell you something..I also waited for the 'slap in the face', but it never came and then....Sunday morning he proposed and there it was..in that chaotic emotion filled moment I just knew..
So that was my 'slap' and it just feels amazing, hope you get slapped silly.
2006-09-14 22:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by sexybabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, you should get in or get out. When it goes like this for a long time, it usually wears thin, and wears out. Ask yourself why and with him, and love it or leave it. You already been in this too long.
2006-09-14 22:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has not happened after 7 years .It is not going to happen.
2006-09-14 22:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by eva b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont know after 7 years, you're hopeless
2006-09-14 22:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋