There are several keys to being a good communicator. First, eye contact is important. Don't stare them down, but look them in the eye to let them know you are listening and talking to them. Second, be an active listener. Don't start planning what you are going to say, listen to what they are saying and then formulate an answer. Third, try to keep statements in an "I" term. Always state things from your standpoint. Don't every throw out statements that seem to point fingers or place blame elsewhere - especially in arguements. When listening, always show you are paying attention with either a nod of the head or a word of continuation. These are some important tips I got out of my communications class. There are tons more, but you can really find alot on the web these days. I would say for further advice, google.com it. :)
2006-09-14 22:24:36
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answered by Shadowtwinchaos 4
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Your technique depends on the situation. For job interviews direct eye contact is best but don't glare. Speak clearly, confidently, and sit up straight. Minimize hand movements as they can be distracting. Your dress is also a communication tool so choose appropriate clothing. For relationship skill a more relaxed self confidence and listening skill is start. Eye contact is important but look away occasionally when appropriate so as not to be conceived as a potential stalker.
2006-09-14 22:22:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Address people by their names..everyone likes to hear their names, thats a fact for an admisson or winning a game.
Learn assertive skills, use active listening techniques, see all possiblities of a situation not a horses vision
2006-09-16 10:44:16
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answered by weirdoonee 4
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Listen
2006-09-14 22:38:38
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answered by Sidoney 5
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Look people straight in the eye when you're talking to them. Speak with a loud, clear voice. Don't hunch, body posture is also impt. Listen carefully when people are speaking to you, don't interrupt.
2006-09-14 22:23:44
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answered by Anonymous
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C there r schools running for it but a book will do.
follow the book and proceed practically.
boldly comeout. don't hesitate what others will think- this is the basic secret.
2006-09-14 22:17:35
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answered by ? 6
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just speak up ,read a lot and write a lot dont bother about the mistakes they will vanish soon,trying is the most important build your confidence and soon people will be listning to you
2006-09-14 22:33:34
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answered by jay rationalgirl 2
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talk over the telephone. call any numbers and talk, u can IM me and we shall chat.. or email me.. ill tell u, im a communicvating consulatant working for the FBI. and negotiator
2006-09-14 22:31:49
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answered by tariq k 4
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be honest and real as much as you can .....!!!
i believe you are jus perfect ...you need join any school or institute...only focus on the teachings which mumma used to gv while we were young and concentrate and believe in your self and ur capabilities.....
cheers ...!!!
2006-09-15 01:17:22
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answered by pink 1
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simple, speak to people who are good listeners
2006-09-14 22:15:20
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answered by george grohan mendal 3
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