when i was 14 i got raped n then i got raped at 16 im 19 now but i dont understand that what happened to me hasnt made me afraid of sex im oppersit i love it n im a sex freak.. people dont belive me when i say i got raped cos the way i am now... why am i like this??
2006-09-14 21:10:38 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
This can happen quite often. Not everyone who has had such an horrific experience will react in the same way. Although some people may be very affraid of having sexual intercourse, with others there will be the opposite affect where they will become very promiscuous. No-one know exactely why this is. We all have different coping strategies. Maybe you need to analyse the way you feel regarding Sex. Does it make you feel wanted, attractive etc? It could be that you subconciously think that this sort of attention is better than no attention at all???? I really don't know, they're just suggestions. I suppose what I'm trying to say is, you're not a freak or anything and it isn't uncommon. There are rape councilling services available - maybe get in touch with your local service. They might be able to give you the answers you're looking for. Take Care!
2006-09-15 02:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by joby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing and many counselor that said i was that way because one of two things usually happen. One your afraid of sex for the rest of your life or you use it and make sure that being raped will never happen again as long as i am in control of it i am happy and love it but i have had some that like to be on top and if the out too much pressure i freak and start fighting cause it will never happen to me again... and as you get old things change and yeah it happen to you but i live that i will not be a victim all my life he will never have that much control over me
2006-09-15 09:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably when you got raped it didn't make you scared of sex , but now you think that if you have sex! that person will love you or you have lots of sex trying to find love! it's a toughy but only you can know whats going on inside!
2006-09-15 08:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by lester barnes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can make you want sex more it did with me
2006-09-16 19:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over here babe so do i love sex who doesn't
2006-09-16 19:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by telboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋