Ok, my girlfriend is away on holiday in portugal judging a trampolining competition (shes a gymanst) and shes sharing a room with her 'best friend' rob (who she mentions quite often) they both work at the same gym and she says they are just good mates but theres like 30 other people from the Gym that are also her friends but female so why she have to share it with a male? Maybe im just being paranoid and they are 'good friends' but as well as this no1 at her work knows that she has abf (weve been '2getha' 3 months an just her parents and her mate symone know about me) so this guy she is sharing a room with thinks she is single? shes back on tuesday - what shall i do?
2006-09-14 21:06:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
y do only 3 ppl kno abt ur relationship?????id stress ot man!!!esp.if his hoTT
2006-09-14 21:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by hoTTstuFF 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her why she doesn't tell other people about your relationship. Explain to her that she needs to put herself in your shoes and ask herself how she would feel if you did that to her. That to me seems unfair, and you have every right to feel the way you do. I think that she should let people know that your together, especially her "good pal" that just happens to be sharing a room with her thinking shes single. That's just not right. It sounds to me like maybe shes unsure of her feelings for you and she doesn't want other people to know until shes sure. Or she is hiding it because she has something going on with that guy from th gym or someone else. Just confront her honestly about your feelings and if she can't come up with a good enough explanation for you then tell her the two of you need to take a break from each other until she can decide if she really wants to be in a relationship with you. If she values you and your relationship then she should have already told people. Just my opinion tho. Good Luck and remember that there are plenty of good honest women in this world.
2006-09-15 04:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by lovemykalli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y only few people know about ur relationship?
mayb she's cheating on u. why else wont she tell ALL her frens that she already has a boyfren? including Rob?
u shld confront her dude. dun keep quiet about this. u need to make everything clear in ur head instead of wondering, wondering n wondering about it.
try to open up the issue with her but never in an accusing tone.
2006-09-15 04:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you got a gymnast. Way to go they are really flexible. But seriously why dont you just go with her to her work and make sure she introduces yot to EVERYONE. If she cant do that then she is hiding something from you and you need to move on.
2006-09-15 04:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by dgrainger77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well. did you talk to her about it? jumping to conclusions is one of the worst things you can do. but you also need to trust her. if you really are doubting her, it might actually happen =/ but really, if you love her there should be no worries. and why do only 3 people know about your relationship? you should let it out in the open. at least let a few more people know
2006-09-15 04:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by § Moonlight Shadow § 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should trust your instincts. When she gets back you should ask her why no one at her work knows about you. Her guy friend probably thinks she is single. She wants him to think she is. If you think she is cheating than she probably is. If she wanted to be off the market then she would tell everyone.
2006-09-15 04:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by m&m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my innocent friend; in which world you are living. i dont say that she is cheating. it is not correct to balme someone; but then it is not at all appropritate for a girl to share a room with another man. if i were you i would certainly confront her and if required leave her. my girl would kill me if i ever did that.
2006-09-15 04:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by aftab24ff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going to sound wrong, but think of it as insurance. Go out and cheat on her with another girl, that way, in case she does, you haven't gotten totally screwed over. Women are whores mate, dont forget that. they are opportunists
2006-09-15 04:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you I'd ask her friends about her being with any guys be4 jumping to any conclusions... If u know any of her friends OR what you could do is ask her "best friend" Rob if anything happend... U could act like your his buddy, then see what actually happend!!!
2006-09-15 04:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by sirwinalot20034 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man that sucks! Just ask her what would she do in your position would she like it? Would she believe and trust you? Talk about whats bothering you or else nothing will be solved.
2006-09-15 04:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a gymnast share the room only with girls never with boys(those r the rules)
2006-09-15 04:24:07 · answer #11 · answered by Deea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋