once had this encounter..talked on the phone with some1 i didnt know at all for about three months not knowing the face behind the voice..okay..we finally met eye to eye..he was a hitch!!!..we then met for the second time..this time we kissed(passionately)..he left again..and since we kissed he never stopped calling..so what i am trying to figure out is..
does he really like me..he never mentioned anything of the sort to me..
all we ever talk about is what we do in our daily lives..
2006-09-14 20:58:06 · 17 answers · asked by da sweetest 1!!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, rejection is a scary thing. You don't risk rejection if you never go out on a limb.
My advice? The next time you talk, tell him how YOU feel. I can pretty much guarantee he's interested, otherwise there wouldn't have been passion in his kiss and he wouldn't be calling you all the time. He's just having a hard time talking about taking your relationship to the next level.
Don't be so surprised that it's hard for him to express his feelings. After all, you haven't been expressing your feelings to him either, right? Expressing feelings is no easier for guys than it is for girls.
Good luck - and make sure you ask him what the deal is, the next time you talk.
2006-09-14 21:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... what I think that u should do is to meet up with him again and ask him if he actually has feelings for you... If he pauses and then says yes... that means No and that he's only trying to get something else... but if he says yes and can look you in the eyes while hes saying it, he likes you, and he's being completly honest with you... And if u can't talk to him in person try to slip it into a conversation that u have on tha phone... u could say something like, " Well I thought I should let you know that I like you..." and you should be able to tell by the way he responds if he likes you too!!!
2006-09-14 21:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by sirwinalot20034 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will never know dear...unless you are in their shoes...doesn't the passionate kiss give you a hint of what he thinks about you? if u r still unsure, you should ask him...not directly...but maybe by droppig subtle hints like "you wanna go on a date with me?" or something like that...ask him what does the kiss mean? where does that bring both of u? try to divert your conversation to your question...ask him? if he tries to avoid, tell him that it is important and you need to know...if you go out with him again, ask him face to face..this way, u would be able to see his facial expression and at the same time feel what his emotions are...
i hope this helps...
GoOd LuCk!!!
2006-09-14 21:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by cuteangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sweetest, Guys are afraid to show their feeling.He likes you,specially after the kiss.Believe me,if he didn't like the kiss,he wouldn't be calling you.What he is doing, is feeling around to see if this is real, and if he wants to keep seeing you.So go along with it, and things will work out for both of you.
Clowmy
2006-09-14 21:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is definently a question you should be asking him instead of the masses of heartless net surfers. It sounds like you talk to him everyday you should have a feel for his personality by now. Is he shy or is he just having fun? Best way to know is ASK.
2006-09-14 21:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by dgrainger77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blurting out our feelings on the first date is a risky proposition. You run the risk of getting your feelings hurt, much less trampled on. So if he has any feelings for you, I wouldn't rush him to tell you them, it was only a few dates. First try to appreciate being with each other first.
2006-09-14 21:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its REALLY hard for a guy to express his feelings to a girl. Ive been with this dude for a year and the only way he can tell me anything besides he loves me to my face is thru YAHOO MESSENGER or MySpace.
2006-09-14 21:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by SEXiiNESS_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very hard cos guys don't know how to express their feelings. but if he has been calling you all the time then of course he likes you anybody could figure that out. DAH
2006-09-14 21:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND, GUYS ARE TAUGHT FROM DAY ONE TO SUPPRESS FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS.
IF WE ARE CAUGHT HAVING THEM WE MUST BE GAY!
JUST LOOK FOR CLUES.... HE TALKED TO YOU FOR 3 MONTHS AND HE DIDN'T KNOW WHAT YOU LOOKED LIKE.
I DON'T KNOW WHAT "..he was a hitch!!!.." MEANS BUT I THINK IT MUST HAVE BEEN POSITIVE CONSIDERING YOU MET UP A SECOND TIME.
NOW PASSIONATE KISSING, AND MORE PHONE CALLS. YES. HE DEFINITELY LIKES YOU.
WHAT YOU WANT IS FOR HIM TO BE SPECIFIC. SO INITIATE THAT CONVERSATION. IT WILL BE EASIER FOR HIM THEN TO BEGIN OPENING UP TO YOU, THAN IF YOU WERE TO JUST FIRE OF QUESTIONS TO HIM.
TELL HIM WHAT THIS RELATIONSHIP MEANS TO YOU, AND WHERE YOU SEE IT GOING. DON'T PRESSURE, JUST BE HONEST.
YOU MIGHT BE SURPRISED AT WHAT HAPPENS!
2006-09-14 21:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by singingbuggmann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man is really interested in a lady, he's willing to cross whatever boundaries- in order to tell her his feelings. It is not hard for someone who is genuinely in love
2006-09-14 21:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by emator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋