im scared to move on in my relationship? i have been with him for 5 yrs. and i dont want to be there anymore but i dont want to be single is that normal?
2006-09-14 20:07:55 · 7 answers · asked by mslady318 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are the one that has to sit and think to yourself. If this is not going anywhere for you then it is not fair to stay with him. He may be a guy but he also wants things in life. Don't make him believe that this is going somewhere when it really isn't. I'm very sorry to say this but it is a selfish thing to do. Keep him along for the ride because you are too afraid to be single. I'm not telling you that you are wrong for feeling this way. This is how it happens for some people. You have to realize why you have a fear of being single. If you are not happy then there is clearly something better out there for you, and you will never find unless you look. He may be a great guy, but he may not be the great guy for you. Let him find someone that is happy to be with him.
You do not have to feel guilty about that. You should feel guilty for keeping him around because of your fears being single.
You will only make the two of yourselves miserable.
2006-09-14 20:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's so scary about being single?
If you don't want to be in a relationship, then get out! You are the master of your destiny. Do not let others decide your destiny. Be more confident of yourself.
If you have no self confidence, you will be afraid of doing many things that you are actually capable of doing.
We may fail sometimes, but we pick ourselves up and learn from our mistakes. If we are able to learn and not make the same mistakes again, our lives will improve and become better.
So, go on with your move!
2006-09-15 03:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abosolutely, it is ok to be scared, scare of being unmarried.
After 5 years of being with him and now you are thinking of stopping this kind of relationship. You must have your reasons in doing so.
Be brave once you make this decision then never look back and never regret.
I can only wish you all the best.
2006-09-15 03:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, 5 years is a long time...you hate to see it go all for naught.
But, it is better to be in a relationship that is developing to a long-term future together. If you don't think this is it, you should get out, else face more serious issues later on.
2006-09-15 03:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's normal. Eventually you will have come to the end where you REALLY can't take anymore and you will have the courage to leave. Being single is great! I wish I still was sometimes. Its good to enjoy life on your own sometimes. Good luck x
2006-09-15 03:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by sarah_99bc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on now before it's too late, don't be scared. There's a lot of men waiting for you. Try now!
2006-09-15 03:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by vsg0818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its going to be alright. Sit him down and discuss your feelings. I used to feel like this but now I'm happy with the turnout.
2006-09-15 03:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋