I m 18 year old girl. All my frnds hav experienced sex. I too am going to do that. But can any one describe me the feelings during a intercourse?i cant ask my frnds this as i m a bit shy wen these topics ***.
2006-09-14 20:01:17 · 27 answers · asked by swetaleena s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's like this.
You're warm, and comfortable. The breathing on your neck or even the biting of the lets you know that this other person is there, sharing this moment. It feels like you're trying to literally merge with this person, all the while every nerve is tingling, compelling you to continue. Faster, deeper, you push and pull, like the sensations that have taken hold of you will fade away, never to return if you stop for even a second. Suddenly, every muscle within you stiffens, and your pleasure center in your brain goes on overload... and for a second, you feel something you've never felt before. It's almost transcendant.
They don't call it "the little death" for nothing...
Then, as suddenly as it comes over you, it starts fading. For you women, it won't stop, but for us men we're out for at least 30 minutes or so.
So, to answer your question, yes. Sex is a very pleasurable thing.
2006-09-14 20:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by kagetatewaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you want to have sex before marriage? Is it because all your friends had it? My advise would be to keep it pending, that would give you much more pleasure during your honeymoon night with your life partner.
If you cant postpone, have it with a decent guy . The experience during intercourse can not be describe in words. It is to be experienced. If it is done in a most articulate way by an experienced and considerate partner then you would feel that u r in heaven. You should ask your partner not to hurry in entering you. You should get first heated up. He should first kiss you with tongoue in the mouth. Then he should kiss your boobs and massage them gently so that it does not pain.Then he should finger your private part gently and slowly go dipper. When you feel urge for having his instrument in you, you should guide with your hand the shaft slowly in your hole. The stroks should be gentle in the begining and fast at the end. Please do not have oral sex as it is your first experience. You would not like the taste. Do not allow the fellow to do anal as it is painful.
If you take the above advise you would enjoy your first intercourse beyond any expectation. You would be fully satisfied and would have long lasting experience of your life.
2006-09-15 01:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by gelilio 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, subject to many a conditions related and applied.
You being 18 and stating that all your friends had experience of sex is a bad scenario under moral yardstick.
You too is going to do that is not an appreciable thing.
Feeling during or after the intercourse couldn't be described in specific terms since it has no universal approach and the same will depend differently to different based not only limited to their social, moral, physological, geographical environments.
However, it could be described similar in nature and feelings as youself getting relieved and satisfied as settled for the time-being from certain physical and mental burdens of passion and lust coupled together, holding you prior to the act.
2006-09-14 21:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physically, of course it feels good (at least for most people after the first time). Think of it as a full-body sneeze - tension builds up until you think you can't stand it any more, then it is released in pleasurable waves. Emotionally, it is complicated for many women. If you grew up in a family in which sex was not made to seem dirty or weird, and if you are with someone you trust and have only positive feelings about, it can be great. If sex reminds you of a prior molestation, or if the guy is someone you are a little afraid of, not so much.
2006-09-14 20:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by neniaf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual experience should be a way to discover yourself and body. You should just be calm and let things flow smoothly, even if it takes you two awhile to figure how things work.
The beautiful thing about sex (love making) is self discovery. Don't let people tell you how you should feel or how sex should be, the best part is the discovery of sex for your own self.
Just remember to use condom and practice safe sex.
2006-09-14 20:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Inquisit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its pleasurable, but its not the age to do so. Do it after finishing your studies and getting married. Enjoy it with your life partner otherwise u may be in trouble for which there won't be any excuse.
2006-09-14 20:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by princeatheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not like it the firts time. With time you can learn to enjoy it. Have lots of 4play which means caresing, touching, kissing, etc. Good luck. If I were U I'll wait until I feel I found Mr. Right.
2006-09-14 20:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Junia Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intercourse is like eating a hot fudge sunday where the fidge and brownie are all hot and the ice cream is oh so cold. You know how good that tastes. oh man... unforgettable.... basically wait till youre married.
2006-09-14 20:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by Eugene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First time can suck, unless its someone you love. But after that, if you like who you are with, it is very pleasurable. Dont have sex with someone just to have sex, that is not the way to go about it. make sure your first is someone you want to be with.
2006-09-14 20:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by suzjm98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not the first time, focus more on foreplay and afterplay.. It keeps getting better with everytime. Or worse, depends on the guy your with..
But it sure gives ya pleasure and yeah, lotsa pleasure
2006-09-15 00:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by the_hauntid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋